which one i should let go?
By reyzhan
@reyzhan (3)
Malaysia
March 8, 2010 2:44am CST
i have love relationship with 2 boys..
one of them is my cousins..
and one of them is my childhood friends..
i keep asking myself when i am going to tell the truth about this..
i love both of them,
but since my cousin do want to let me go,
what should i tell the other one?
i keep lying to them and this situation make ma sick..
even if i tell the truth,
they wont believe me..
my cousin live very far from my place now..
we had long-distance relationship since 3 months ago..
while the other boy live just around my place..
we met oftentimes..
how i would solve all of this problems since
i love both of them and i don't want them to be hurt by my decision..
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4 responses
@superwomanof3 (19)
• United States
8 Mar 10
Definitly let the cousin go. I don't know how that relationship even started, do your parents know about it? I'm sorry sweetie if I offend you, but that is morally wrong.
@rsa101 (37954)
• Philippines
8 Mar 10
First things first, having a relationship with cousin that is romantically is I think wrong. Unless you are distant relatives already then I think that's okay. So between the two I guess the only eligible person to romantically be linked with you is your childhood friend which means you do not have any blood relations with each other. I really think that you forego with your relationship with your blood relatives because it is not good biologically speaking and morally it is wrong to be romantically link with him.
How do you do this, resolved and just let go of the other.
@homeshoppers (6166)
• Philippines
8 Mar 10
i dont know what country your from but in my country we are not allowed to have relationship with any of our cousin as long as there still blood lines in it. unless those are already mix like half chinesse as they are allowed to do that as i already heard about a lot of that here to maintain money for just themselves.
anyway, if you cousin already told you that his willing to let you go then it means that his not willing to fight for your love so why bother to fight nor choose him. just go to someone whose willing to fight for his love since you both love them both.
