TRUST = too hard while JEALOUSY = too easy.?
March 8, 2010 9:33am CST
There are times when I just couldn't help but wonder why TRUST is just too hard to give while JEALOUSY is too easy to feel. Have you realized that as well?
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8 Mar 10
I know that trust is definitely hard to give. I've had to learn to trust all the people who are close to me since I've been hurt so many times. I don't know that jealousy is easy for me. There are times when I experience, but I would hope that both characteristics don't come easy for me for the reasons I already listed. You make a very good point, though!
8 Mar 10
Because I guess the root cause of such predicament is the fear of being hurt. It is anxiety. Sometimes we think that by being jealous and angry we are much in control of the situation and that fear is neutralize in some way, but the truth is, there is still no assurance that the person whom you are jealous with cannot make the mistake. And in the same way, by trusting on the person does not mean you gave the person the license to make the mistake. However which way the truth is that trust is always earned.