does true friends exist in real life?

Hey Bhai Khan, I made a terrible mistake in my response to your discussion. That is, I forgot to say, "Allah is my best friend above all". I knew that you would be surprised that I mentioned my beloved as a true friend. I'm not hurt at all by your comment. Like you once I was also very skeptical about women excepting my mother. When I saw my fiance first, I didn't know what she is so generous. I've already told in one of my responses on myLot that it's not easy to be my friend, he/she has to pass my test for friendship. I've tested her many ways and every time she remained the same, generous, selfless and loving. She is waiting to be my wife, still virgin. I've seen a lot of lovely women who are rude, proud of their beauty and selfish. By this time she has helped me many times without the least hope of any return. But she is different than others. Allah has created women to obey and follow the command of men. It's our duty to guide women in the way of Islam. It's been proven worldwide that if husband and wife develop a friendly relation between them, their conjugal life turns into a heaven. You can also make a girl a true friend with your earnest efforts if you like. Our Holy Prophet and Messenger Hazrat Muhammad (SM) has also given importance on friendly relation with our wives. He said, link: http://blogs.muxlim.com/bay_muslimah/hadith-about-wives That's why we should be friendly with our wives to maintain the real way of Islam. I'm always praying to Allah so that All my friends at home and abroad can have a very good friendly relation with their wives and live a very happy, comfortable and peaceful life ever after. May Allah grant you a long life. Have a peaceful day.

asslam u alikum wa rehmatullahi barkaatahu my brother farid i ask you onething that in your comment you had mentioned about your girl friend, sorry your future wife. i want to ask you that are you married with her or not? please i want to suggest you that if you are mentioning me true in aboe discussion i want to suggest you that please be marry with her as soon as possible, it is a request from your brother khan. i want to tell you that you had mentione so many qualities which have to be satisfied by every women(especially islamic womens). but unfortunately due to spreading of this science and modern techniques our society is becoming very much moder including our some islamic people. i want to tell that you are very lucky person that you had been gifted by our almighty god allah naturlly and its up to yours to accept or deline it. please accept that girl and marry with her quickly (it is your brothers request). your second comment about the freindship with girl i want to tell you that i am living very far away from this friendship. please do not get hurted i am not doing freindship with girls not is the reason that i did not want to give them chance but the reason is i did not want to give chance to all the people against islam, as our prophet S.A.W.S. told us that you have to avoid this friendship which is responsible for bad habbits"zina" please listen first that i didnt go after the order of my almighty allah and our prophet S.A.W.S. as in one haddith almighty allah itself said that the comment from my meesenger and prophet S.A.W.S. is comment from me. there are also so many real fact about this freindship. i can also tell you something about this frinship that is one boy and girl who is doing friendship mainly falls in love and also in this modern age all girls and boys tell to their parents that i will marry to that person with whom i love. now you tell me that is it right? i am not taunting you, because the almighty allah forgive us till when we donnot have knowledge about that, but after that we have to suffer from punishment from almight allah. please ignore if i hured you but please think on my above statement please reply soon, your brother khan.

walaikum assalam u alikum wa rahmetullahi barkaatahu, i am very happy to see you again and also i am missing you from a couple of days. i had read your comment and i also agree with you that the most and very special true friend of us is our father and mother. i am also in your site to comment about this topic. i also want to tell you that even i also love my parents very much but after my god(almight allah) and his rasul(S.A.W.S.) i did not telling that i am loving my parents very less i can change my way of life for my parents if they are in right way in front of allah and "allhamdullillah" as we are muslims our parents are also guiding us to stay with islam in complete life. your second thing about that beloved women is not satisfying me completely. i am not telling you wrong but i want to tell you that i did not make any girl as my friend. i only made one that is only sister which is right in front of allah. i am not saying that i am too much stict or anything i only want to make my complete life with my islam. i cannot say that whether i will go in heaven or hell untill the god will judge me. i donnot want to hurt you if i had said anyhting which make you uncomfortable than i am very very very sorry for my deed. please reply sonn if you want i am waiting eagerly, khan. i also pray to almighty allah that" oh! the creater of all universe my lord almightty allah please forgive us and please help us to know the real way of islam". peace.

Hi Khan and thanks for responding. I'm happy that you too have good friends that are there for you and you are there for them. This is as it should be. God made us so that we could enjoy companionship with fellow humans. I also agree with you that God cannot come on earth or take human form as he is so immense that even the physical universe cannot contain him. In fact the physical universe is very small compared to God. You are right, he does have angels that he uses to help humans if that is his will. I also respect your beliefs and everybody else's whether I agree with them or not. Have a great day!

hi friend thanks for your reponse and i am happy to see you again i had posted two comments on your discussion but you have not reply till now, anyways i am very happy that you are not hurted with me and then also if i hurted you without any reason then i am very soory for that. please if you need me anytime then please tell me. please reply soon if you want. have a nice day and god bless you.

hello my friend, i had read your comment and i respect your feelings. i want to tell that yes our god is the one who help us when no body can help us. i can give you several examples but there is one way of god many times god send their angel in the form of various things. but remember god never comes on earth because our god is so powerfull that we and our earth cannot dare to see them. please reply with your comment that whether you are agree with my answer or not. please reply soon i am waiting eagerly, your friend khan.

hi friend i am khan got your comment and i respect your feelings and want to tell you that i am not forcing you to tell your friend name and also my aim of this discussion to find that how many true friends are remaining in this world? please donnot get hurted. i only want to share my views with everybody please keep this spirit always up and always help every friend because we really need a true friend who help us to save our life. please reply if you want with your views your freind khan.

I am not hurt or insulted or anything, that's just how I write sometimes... with a lil bit of sarcasm.

hello friend got your comment and i want to tell you that always be on right way. peace

hello friend i am very much satisfied with your answer because good friends are those who are happy with happiness of our friends and i also like the same about the trust you had told me i am not very much comfort with your reply as the true friend can only and only be identified when we are in difficulty which shows us the true friends and relatives who loves us and with the bless of allah and my parents i have some which can be told to be good friend. what about you do you have any? please reply soon and have a nice day.