Do you make bad decisions?

@Java09 (3075)
United States
March 9, 2010 10:49am CST
I feel I do.I never even know when I make a decision if it's a good one.when it comes to deciding,it's so stressful for me to make a choice.I know when I decide on something it never turns out to even being close to what I imagine it to be.Do you have trouble making a decision?
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9 responses
@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
9 Mar 10
hi java why not make a list of the pros and the cons before you make a decision, then go with whichever if the highesst too many cons, decide against something, butmore pros decide on the positive side. this has helped me to make a lot better decisions. they usually turn out to be 'good ones as I weighed both sides of the issue.
@ybong007 (6643)
• Philippines
10 Mar 10
hhmmm...pros and cons. that's what i'm missing. Thanks for pointing it out because sad to say a lot of people decide on their instincts and impulses to decide but not really taking into consideration the pros and cons of that decision.
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@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
24 Apr 10
hi ybond 007 thanks for the best response, always nice to get one.
@sjvenden27 (1840)
• United States
9 Mar 10
Yes I have a very hard time making decisions.. Always second guessing myself... Worried that I am going to make a mistake, or hurt someone's feelings.. But I am learning that if I have make decisions for myself, some else will and I may or may not like the out come... and its easier to blame someone else for my mistakes then the blame is taken off of me... but at the same time if it works out, i can not take the credit because I didnt make the decision... We are all imperfect we make mistakes it just happens
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@mesuaky (397)
• Singapore
9 Mar 10
yes i do have made a lot of bad decisions in my life until i notice the difference that when i pray before i think of what to decide it usually comes out a good decision... I guess God will always work in His mysterious ways. Why don't you try it you won't loss anything.
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• Philippines
12 Mar 10
Hello Java09, it's part of life. sometimes we do things that we thought it was good for every one or everything else. but you know, we usually become good decisions if we learned from making bad things or decisions in life. sometimes the best thign for us e to mature is to experience total failure and moved on
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@tina256 (190)
• China
12 Mar 10
well ,i think every one could make bad decision ,unless he is not people .the most important is how you to save the bad decision you have made to . all in all ,this is the attitude,attitude make everything ,maybe this is right.
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@vikeyme (109)
• China
11 Mar 10
of cours i have made wrong decisions ,i think that's very usual.by making bad decisons we can learn more.what do you think
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@dragon54u (31636)
• United States
9 Mar 10
I used to have trouble making decisions but the past few years it is easier. I consider the worst case scenario if I decide a certain way then think if I could live with it. The decision that has the least amount of negative consequences is the one I go with.
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@vine88 (1031)
• India
10 Mar 10
Nobody like to do bad decisions. It will be known after wards. You are wrong or wright.
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@besthope44 (12123)
• India
7 Oct 10
Most time, its my work..with ontime deliveries and work loads. I try to divert mind on music and i feel better. We need to manage depression, as it is part of life in busy world. But if we concentrate, we can manage it. I does it through my yoga, listening music and going out on vacation.