I'm soooo hurt. My star went down from and 8 to 7. I read q&a, but

United States
March 9, 2010 10:56am CST
I had an 8 last night in my star and I was proud of it cause it used to be 7. I worked hard, and when I looked this morning, I had a seven again. I looked at stars and rating in Q&A and I guess some people rated me down last night. Boo hoo hoo hoo.
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16 responses
• Philippines
9 Mar 10
Hello Chrystal, really sorry to hear that. But I guess that's one thing almost all of us users here in MyLot have to go through. Yeah, it can be disappointing how our ranks can go down and how some people can rate our opinions negatively, but I guess that part of engaging in a discussion, what we say, or write at least, can't always please everyone. I think it'll be good to look at the brighter side of things, and to challenge ourselves to give and make more quality and better responses. A little challenge is always good. Cheer up darling, I'm sure you'll rank higher again soon! Regards!
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• United States
9 Mar 10
Thanks so much for the encouragement.
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• United States
9 Mar 10
I know. Some mylotters are so sweet.
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• Philippines
9 Mar 10
You're most welcome dear! Already now we see people helping and supporting you with your rating. :) Good luck and regards!
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@Aaleexix (2290)
• India
9 Mar 10
We should not discuss on star rating system. Discussion on star rating system is violation of guideline.
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• United States
9 Mar 10
Well it shouldn't be as much of our life is mylotting. I feel that should be changed, Alice.
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@Aaleexix (2290)
• India
9 Mar 10
I think you can regain your rating with some good post. As rating is the individual choice of users so we should respect their view. If someone give us negative rating we should accept them. As rating is their right so they can rate as they like.
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• United States
9 Mar 10
ok
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@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
9 Mar 10
hi chrystaltears, look at the rating number as sometimes you can be right on the edge between 7 and 8 so that one number more or one less willmove you back to 7 or up to 8, as I had been8 for so long and wor ked hard to try to get up to at least a 9 , then for a week or two my star was 8 then 9 then 8 again,and mylot admins explained to me the percentage, and oneper cent either way will move it back and forth so you may be on that edge between 7 and 8. Hopefully we will rate you plus enough now that we will get you back to an 8 and in time maybe a 9. I do know some people on hear hit the minus all the time no matter wha and thats playing dirty pool.
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• United States
9 Mar 10
Thank you so much for that. You're right, it might be back to 8 by in the morning. And I guess I got into a discussion last nite that did this to me, but hey you gotta do what you gotta do. You know I do just the opposite of the minus. If we don't agree in our discussions, that doesn't mean I should minus them. They have opinions just like me.
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@snoopyfan (1312)
• United States
9 Mar 10
Yes I had some interesting discussions with them this morning. I am now no longer responding to any of their discussions. I would suggest you do the same. It will go back up again there is more good people here than those that just hit minus all the time. I gave you both a big thumbs up!
@sjvenden27 (1840)
• United States
9 Mar 10
Yes it is a let down when you work so hard to get up there just to find it go down right away... That happen to me a lot when I was first getting started.. been on here since last summer.... I shot up to ten and then went to 6 in one day... It becomes more steady with the more you do, and have others response to your discussions.. One other hint that I found was to build your friends list... How to decide who to pick? I respond to different discussions and if the person response back to me, create a little re pore.. Then I add them.. I feel that adding friends at random is ok but if you really want people to respond to your discussions is a good idea to see if the person's idea match yours, or a good person to have debates with...civil ones... the more you are out there, the more positive/negative feedback you will get... Its ok you will get back up there in no time
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• United States
9 Mar 10
Thank you sjvenden27. Did you go to bed last night?
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• United States
10 Mar 10
Yes... There just some nights were i dont get much sleep... and then other night I get a lot...
@sushie93 (1355)
• France
9 Mar 10
Don't care about ratings, it doesn't matter (except for the money xD), ratings go up and down, it's normal, it's like people life. ^^ Being rated down don't mean that members hate you, don't take it too seriously. ^^
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• United States
9 Mar 10
You're right. That's the way I'm gonna look at it from now on. Thanks.
@rosegardens (3034)
• United States
9 Mar 10
Awe, I am sorry to hear about this. You don't seem like a rude person so I do not understand why someone would rate you negative, unless it is based on the fact they just don't like your opinion. Maybe you should stay out of that particular forum for a while until your rating is boosted. ;)
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• United States
9 Mar 10
Yes that seems like the best thing to do, but I have to go back. Paul had to keep going back.
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• United States
9 Mar 10
Aha. Our addictions can get us into trouble sometimes........:D Happy Mylotting! I'm trying to boost your score.
• United States
10 Mar 10
Mine went from 93 to 82 overnight! How does that happen so quickly
10 Mar 10
*hugs* this happens every now and again here and I guess there are a few people who don't really understand the rating system. Here's a plus for you
@dawnald (85135)
• Shingle Springs, California
9 Mar 10
Here's a plus for you. People misuse the negative rating sometimes. It's a shame because it affects your earnings...
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• United States
9 Mar 10
You know, and I'm so good about rating others, even if we don't even agree with what we're talking about, those are some of the best discussions. They go on and on. But I guess they ask for another point of view, but don't like them. Thanks so much dawnald.
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@mods196621 (3652)
• Philippines
9 Mar 10
Don't be sad it happened to me also. But come again from where i started. Just go on writing and share your good ideas and gain more friends here. One day you will notice a good changes in your stars. It's okay. Have a nice day...
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• United States
9 Mar 10
Thank you so much. That's exactly what i'm going to do. Like your star!
@pierone (1894)
• Italy
11 Mar 10
Hello friend. I can understand how do you feel. I guess I felt the same when my star falled down to 6. Unfortunately seems lot of people here give you negative rating, just because maybe they aren't agree with your post, but, when they agree, also if they answer your discussions, they simply forget to give you a positive rating. So going down is easy, but rise up is really a pain. In more than 6 months my rating is still there, blocked to 61 ;) Wish you more luck than me ;) See you around
@mysdianait (66009)
• Italy
11 Mar 10
This is off topic but I have to contact you somehow. I sent you a PM. Alice is testing to see if there is a problem as you are not the only one who cannot send me PMs. If you received mine please do as asked. If not, please PM me. If it won't go through, please respond here
• United States
12 Mar 10
Didn't get. PMed u.
• United States
11 Mar 10
oh boo hoo hoo! no one really cares about those stupid stars anyway I cant imagine how you offended someone or why your star would have dropped
@flower21 (765)
• Philippines
13 Mar 10
yay..rating should be abolish it is often abuse but troll who are here to negate others because they do it for fun and not really aim to earn or to earn. this is lacking in mylot admin for a long time they should look on this it as the system rating sucks anyone could rate anyone whom they disgree with., everyone need to be pay for post and rating should be entirely abolish!!!
@divalounger (5849)
• United States
9 Mar 10
Hi Chrystal, Being fairly new to mylot, I am not familiar with the rating system yet. But I am very sensitive to ratings on other sites that I have been with longer. I know that I always like to check where I am in the scheme of things and am so disappointed when those ratings drop. Hang in there. I am sure that it will get better!
• United States
9 Mar 10
Thank you so much for the encouragement. You will do well with mylot with those types of responses. Maybe I should try to be nicer.
@avani26 (1518)
• India
9 Mar 10
Hey I have given you a positive rating also so don't worry maybe your star will go back to being star and I know how the feeling. I will go to all your discussions and maybe rate it then you may get a 9 also. Happy :-)
• United States
9 Mar 10
Thank you so much. That is so precious.
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@sirnose (2436)
• United States
9 Mar 10
Yes, some will not like your candor here on mylot and will rate your response or your discussion negatively. I always rate respondants to my discussions postive for responding to my discussion it's sort of a reward. To see if your star rating has gone up or down just run your cursor over your star and you will see your star rating at the moment your star rating is 71/100. ...
@udayrao2 (781)
• India
10 Mar 10
Do not feel bad about it - the ratings fluctuate and we can do nothing about it - remember what goes up has to come down one day and vice versa!! We have all gone through this problem as well