What would you do if your bf's/ gf's ex keeps on calling your guy/girl?

Philippines
March 11, 2010 4:41am CST
Hi guys, I know this happens in most relationships, some ex can't get over or they wanted to get back, how would you feel then if this person keeps calling your gf/bf? Would you be jealous or mad? Would you be mad at your guy/girl? how would you handle the situation? Would you allow them to talk to each other?
3 responses
@myramae19 (667)
• Philippines
11 Mar 10
Of course i would really get mad if my partner will answer the call from his ex-girlfriend, and I will be the one to answer it instead, and tell her to stop calling my man, cos it's not good and she should know that, and she should know where to stand..and after that I would tell my man to change his number.
• Philippines
11 Mar 10
this actually happened to me. yeah, i got mad but it s not really a good thing. in times like this you have to be thinking straight and make the right decision. in my case, i made the wrong one and i don t wanna share it here. lol. let s just say it s not really pleasant to hear it. lol. anyway, you should alow your boo to talk to the ex provided that the ex won t make any influence on your relationship, in which i must say, they almost always do. the main reason an ex is calling is bcuz they wanna get back and it s your boo s decision whether she or he ll be influenced by the ex to come back together. in this case, and you should be keen on these type of things, you should cut down any communication between your ex and your boo.
@p3ks626 (6538)
• Philippines
11 Mar 10
This happened to me a few months ago and I really hated it. Not because she was prettier than me, of course I am not prettier than her with, she knows that fact and maybe that's the reason why she's so bitter that she tried to do things that will make things unfavorable for me. She thinks she is very was close to my husband's family and she have this crazy idea that my husband's parents are still in favor of her to be the daughter-in-law. I think she had so many insecurities that she is trying to pull me down by using my family. She thinks I am pathetic but with that kind of situation, who's really pathetic? Obviously she is the one. We actually told her not to contact anybody among us anymore because what she's doing is inappropriate but she was really very angry at it and even told my mother-in-law about what we told her. What a jerk! But I dont care about her anymore because I know now about the kind of person that she is. Totally nothing and is envious of me. I dont want to lower my standards, and go down to her level.