Oh, she is just sooo....
By olisaur
@olisaur (1922)
United States
March 11, 2010 5:23pm CST
This is the situation:
There is this girl (she's totally a "boyfriend girl," if you know what I mean) she is in a relationship with this guy I have kind of liked for a while.
I should mention this guy is in a band, and kind of famous in the band's musical genre's "scene."
This girl has always been dating guys in bands, and seems to always be in a relationship. When she's not, she just kind of disappears from social exsistence. And she always makes a big deal out of her relationships, being so "look how cute we are," with out making it look like she's trying to hard.
Now she has this profile on a social site, and the ONLY time she ever posts is when something's up with her boyfriend. For example, when he comes back from going on tour, when they go out to eat, when they go visit some place together, when they go for a bike ride together.
I know that if it bugs me so much, I shouldn't be looking or even get her off my friends list, but I just can't help it! ///
5 responses
@PocketRocketsAA (628)
• Philippines
11 Mar 10
I surely feel you, sister. I do believe it's normal to always check out on our crushes, nothing pretty abnormal with that. We can blame Facebook for making such an easy task for us to peek at our crush's profiles. LOL. As for that girl friend, it's not a pretty good habit to just keep posting about your boy friend. It just goes to show that she gets her self esteem and confidence from his boy friends, not from herself. That's probably the reason why she keeps having boy friends most of the time.
@olisaur (1922)
• United States
11 Mar 10
Thanks for the response. ^-^
I was staring to feel like this "checking" habit was just something for 12 year old girls, lol!
I guess that's quite true about her self-esteem. I forgot to mention when I started the post that all the band fans are watching her page like a ack of hungry hyenas and commenting her pics, etc all the time- that's probably a big factor in the self-esteem thing, too.
@PocketRocketsAA (628)
• Philippines
11 Mar 10
Oh, don't worry. I used to that a lot too when I still had Facebook! LOL. I have a contact in FB too that is showing the same symptoms as this girl you are talking about. It really is pretty annoying. But sometimes I can't help but check her profile out of curiosity. That's the weird thing about me, I take the step to check her profile and get annoyed once I read what she has to say. LOL. Pretty weird habit of mine!
Anyway, those band fans should quit commenting her pics! It just boosts her ego in the wrong way. She's getting all the attention because of her boy friend, not because of her! Sorry but I find this girl a bit annoying too. Hmmm, maybe I should check her profile out sometime. LOL. Just kidding. Cheers!
@kaylachan (84780)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
12 Mar 10
Maybe a little crazy, but I think inwardly you are hurting yourself. You should probably kind of break away for a while. Maybe give yourself a break before you go completely crazy. No need in hurting yourself over something so... stupid. You know?
You might want to find someone else to like. Get away from the computer for a while, and get completely out of touch with this girl and her relationship disasters.
@tessah (6617)
• United States
12 Mar 10
being a woman that has had her marriage destroyed by yer type of female.. i personally find you repulsive. crazy? no.. disgusting? quite so yes. find yer OWN boyfriend and stop stalking these other peoples relationship like some desperate wanton harlot that cant get her own man
@olisaur (1922)
• United States
16 Mar 10
uh, woah, girl.
Maybe you misread me.
I never said I was trying to get him, let alone trying to split them up. I stated I didn't concentrate all my relationship energy on him, meaning I've had my own relationships since this whole ordeal started.
I was simply talking about the feelings I still have for this guy.
@raynejasper (2322)
• Philippines
12 Mar 10
..hi.. if I were in your situation, I think I'd rather give him up and look for somebody else worthy of my love.. though its hard but you can do it if you want.. his girlfriend is none of your business anymore.. so you might as well stop waiting for their relationship to end up.. I do understand that maybe you are still in love with the guy but there's nothing you can do.. even if for example their relationship would end up, you are not sure if the guy would love you back.. move on my dear.. I know, like what I've said, its hard but its worth trying.. believe me, you will find your own happiness in another guy.. there's no use trying to wait for somebody whom you are not sure about his feelings for you.. there are other guys out there worthy of your love who are willing to love you more..
