Spouse the other half & and so is my Half-world........what do U do when.......
March 11, 2010 10:12pm CST
Recently me,my spouse and our daughter all of us went to a relatives Marriage which is a lengthy process if we take the whole ceremony, its just not finished even after the marriage is over the bridal side visit the grooms village and returns back on the same day if the roadways and other elements are permit so or else returned back on the next morning,naturally I have to returned back to my residence after accompany to the grooms village. With mutual understanding my spouse stayed back to be present for the final ritual i. e. the grooms is supposed to visit the bridal village with his newly wed bridal and stay here for two to three days depends upon the urgency and play with color or Sindoor and so on. In the mean time my daughter fall or caught cold and been on high temperature for two nights and one day full so the visit to the physician and now she is doing well, at this juncture my spouse asked for another two days stay I agreed b'coz my daughter needs some stability....but I am not very satisfied over here I am suffering from loneliness,disturbed sleep,uninterested and boring...... Please suggest me some remedial so that I can carry on another two nights and two days without my other half.....
• United States
12 Mar 10
Let me try to understand this. You are taking care of your sick daughter and you are bored? Or your wife has the sick child with her? Maybe since your spouse is away you are not taking the time to prepare nutritious meals for yourself. Food has an important effect on one's feelings of well-being. Probably when your spouse gets home she will be exhausted. Maybe you could spend this time learning how to prepare some healthy but delicious food and surprise her with a nice meal when she returns. Just as long as you do not surprise her with a messy kitchen instead!
12 Mar 10
Yeh that's a really very good idea to learn a delicious food and then impress upon and in the mean time mylotting with mylotters and specifically you. On the other hand should I insist to get back both of them as our daughter have fully recovered from her fever and cold;as soon as possible so that the full family can enjoy the delicious food that been directed by drannhh and prepared by rocket. Again don't you all are bit surprised by the traditional Indians Marriage and the after marriage rituals.
• United States
13 Mar 10
I used to have a good friend at work who told me a lot of things about the rituals. He was very nice looking by American standards but his wife made him wear a turban when they went out because she was ashamed that he had a bald spot. They both worked full time but she did all the housework. I told him "If take your wife out and do not wear the turban, then you have to help her with the housework!" He said "I will wear the turban!" Here many woman like a man with a bald spot.
13 Mar 10
So its both of them want the turban to stay though due to totally different view, and interest respectively.Unfortunately here the majority of woman do not like the same bald spot. Generally here only the Sardars or the Sikhs have the ritual to wear the turban and have long hairs like the woman counterpart. Its really bad that your friend does not like to do the household instead will wear the turban.....at least he is better that he speaks the truth and does not have any hidden agenda,while most of our and present and past politician do something totally different thing in practice and behave or speak totally opposite when it comes to their life style and so on.