ever feel awkward with your friend and their date?

@tifychau (127)
United States
March 14, 2010 11:11pm CST
Has your friend ever invited you to hang out and when you get there you end up seeing them with their date? She(or he) says she invited you so that she feels less awkward with her date, but then it's you who ends up feeling awkward. You end up watching them flirt and get intimate with each other while you're just sitting there not knowing what to do.
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@phyrre (2317)
• United States
15 Mar 10
I really hate situations like that. That actually was what happened when my husband (then we were just starting to date) and I went on our first date. We were good friends and we didn't want to face the awkwardness of being on a date alone, so our friends invited us to the movies with them on a double date, which we thought sounded like a good idea so we wouldn't need to be alone. Only trouble was they ended up making out through most of dinner and we ended up excusing ourselves and going elsewhere in the mall. It really was awkward, more so than it would've been if we had just decided to go on our first date by ourselves. xD
@tifychau (127)
• United States
15 Mar 10
hahahah that's a funny story! Thanks for sharing! :D
• Philippines
23 Mar 10
actually we already talk about it of not to interfere our personal relationship with our friendship so it means that whenever were together we must not bring our bf with us as we can have all the time being with our bf alone so no need to bring bf. maybe just for us to meet him but the guy will be the one to go home early specially if its a girls night out.
• Philippines
20 Mar 10
right now,I am the only single girl in my group of friends from the office.I do feel awkward being the fifth wheel.I voiced this out with my friends,and they assured me that they don't treat me as fifth wheel and see their group dates as friendly get-together.sometimes it's ok.sometimes I feel like withdrawing from their company,but they don't let me.
• Philippines
18 Mar 10
Well, that situation is really awkward. I was invited with my cousin on a date but I was not aware that her boyfriend was invited too. It really feels awkward at first, but then again I accepted that fact and understood them. So whenever they got intimate I'll make sure to myself that I got busy thinking or doing something else to erase the awkwardness of the situation. From then on, it's not awkward anymore and I spent more time and dates with them too lol. I'm comfortable and they too feel the same way.