are you a listener?

India
March 16, 2010 4:24am CST
hi friend i am khan and i am here to discusss on topic that are you good listener? i know what you are thinking, you are thinking that what is meaning of this question it means that are you from one who listens of other? ex: listening of mother, teacher, father, teacher, elder brother, etc. i want to ask that do you like this or not? please reply with your comment. i hope my all freinds will reply and make me happy to answer. please reply soon.
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7 responses
• Bangladesh
23 Apr 10
Hey My Dear Brother Khan, Assalamu Alaikum Wa Rahmatullah. How are you. I hope you're fine by the grace of Almighty Allah. Well, you've wanted to know if I'm a listener or not. Yes, off course, I'm a very good listener to speeches of any speaker indifferent of any age or class. That's why people love me so much and when they talk to me, they do this with an open heart without any hesitation. Sometimes they tell me their secret information because they have a firm faith on me that I won't disclose them to others. Moreover, when I read any discussion, response or comment posted by myLotters, I read them as if I'm physically present in front of them and they're coming out through their heart and I'm listening them carefully. I listen to everyone's speech with much attention and care. May Allah bless you.
• India
1 May 10
walaikum assalam wa rahematullahi wa barkaatahu, farid brother i am good to see you again and also good to hear that all with you that all like and love to share with you and also this is a very good thing that you are not disclosing their secrets in front of others as it is called private sharing discussed in front of those to whom we can trust fully, so it is our duty to keep this secrets private so that it should be really private and if anybody break their privacy and disclose that in front of others then it is very bad and it will be punished by almighty allah and also it will not have any respect in his /her society as he/she is very bad as breaking their trust. what you think am i right? also i want to tell you all muslims that is real muslim is the one who never break others trust and its own promise. may allah gives us long live with real knowledge and happiness of islam. have a nice day.
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• Bangladesh
1 May 10
Hey Khan Brother, It's a great pleasure for me talking to you. Yes, you're right that a real Muslim should never break trust by disclosing their secrets to others. And I evaluate this matter with much care. May Allah give you much patience to acquire knowledge and teachings of Islam. Have a nice day.
• India
5 May 10
hello again and i am great to hear that you do same as i know that all cannot obey this as they think that it is very difficult to kepp all the things private. also they think that it is good to tell bad things about others and also i had experienced this and you know what i am really very much angered with this people as we do not have right to tell anything bad to others as it is described in hadith that if your brother is having 99 bad habits of 100 and only one thing good then almighty allah told that you only have to go with his one good thing as you do not have right to take his accounts and tell his disablities to others. what you think? please reply soon, may allah fill us life with real happiness which is islam.
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@sajujohn (1005)
• India
16 Mar 10
I think I'm a very good listener. I used to hear patiently whatever my friends,parents etc discuss.I like it because it will give me a lot of knowledge about our surroundings.
• India
17 Mar 10
hi friend thanks for your response and i am agree with you that we have to listen our parents and teachers etc as this contains knowledge. this is possible because they have lot of experienced of life with them and what about the wrong decission taken by them i will never accept that decission and i also avoid to hurt them and i will try to understand them their mistake without hurting them and what about you, what you will do in this case? please reply soon i am waiting for you. have a nice day and god bless you.
@cream97 (29087)
• United States
16 Mar 10
Hi, KHANRABIULLAH. Yes, I do listen to others. And if advice is given to me, I will take heed of it as well. I do my best to listen and pay attention so that I won't miss any important details that are given to me.
• India
16 Mar 10
hi friend thanks for your response and i am agree with your comment as it contain the content that we should take the things which is usefull for us and all other waste material should be trashed from our mind. i want to tell you this is a very good tip that we should take all good things from them. i will try your advise and thanks for sharing your veiws with me. have a nice day and god bless you.
@common_man (1799)
• India
16 Mar 10
Yes, I listen to others. Listening means hearing with full attention and understanding. But Probably what you want to ask is weather we obey what Parents or teachers say. Yes I obey if i feel its in my interest. And that is the case most of the time.
• India
16 Mar 10
hello friend thanks for your response. yes you are obviouslly right i want to ask that whether we obey our parents, teachers and others. but i want to ask one more thing that are you obey them all time or you will disobey them in some condition. i will not say false to you i also disobey my parents when they talk false but in good manner as i was taught by my teachers. what about you? please reply soon have a nice day and god bless you!
• United States
16 Mar 10
Good morning, everyone~ In terms of obedience, I listen to what my parents have to say and obey them if I know that what they are saying is right. As an adult, I no longer see this as much of an obedience issue as a love and respect issue. I also believe it's important for a wife to love and obey her husband. But the husband must love his wife more than anything (except God) and treat her with tremendous love, respect, dignity and honor. As a friend, I seek to listen and hear what people have to say. But I do not see obedience as an issue here. I'm simply here to support my friends--not obey them. Does this make sense? Thanks for asking, and have a great day!
• India
16 Mar 10
hi friend thanks for your reponse and i am agree with you that we have to listen our parents and obey them till we know that they are right. i know that we have to judge that are they right sometimes we obey them even when we know that they are wrong after all they are our parents and we all love them and therefore we cannot stress to our mind in that time. i also want to tell you that sometimes our teachers are also wrong, i had saw and observe it in my real life and from then i had decided that i will obey them when they are right else i will avoid their order in a particular manner such that they will not get hurted and they will accept their mistake. have a nice day and god bless you.
• China
16 Mar 10
hi friend!I'm also have the same question before.I alway confuse whether we should obey our parents,teachers or just do something i want regardless of them.I suggest you do not listen to your parent through and through.You should listen to your parents and teacher if they right,and they also would make mistakes.
• India
16 Mar 10
hi friend thanks for your reponse and i am agree with you that we have to obey your parents and teachers when they are right and we have to avoid their order when they are wrong. however we all are human beings and we all can do mistakes and therefore they can also make mistake but we have to tell them in a particular manner that they are wrong in such a manner they cannot get hurted and they can accept their mistake. thanks for responding, please reply soon. have a nice day and god bless you.
• India
27 Jul 10
Yes,I listen to other with my full constrained.Listening to other is very important and also we will gain lots of knowledge about that topic.