Is this too much towards my girlfriend??

India
March 17, 2010 7:03am CST
My girlfriend has may guy friends..she talks to them many time, sometimes for hours...and i feel like hating my girlfriend for it..somehow i told this problem to her via a call, and i hung up by giving an excuse that i had some urgent engagement...i am very embarrassed to talk to her now...so i immediately approached mylot.. Please give me suggestions on this, regarding this silly behavior (feeling) of mine...and what should i do now...!!
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4 responses
• Philippines
17 Mar 10
hi i guess what your feeling is quite normal for guys who are really in love. And jealousy is a part of a relationship. try to talk to your girl personally and not on the phone. And tell her how you really feel towards her. If she spends too much time on her guy friends on the phone for hours. In a relationship TRUST is really a big factor. If you love your girlfriend then you should trust her.
• India
18 Mar 10
I do trust her...but sometimes when she tells me that she had been busy with a guy then i kinda go paranoid..!! We both love each other a lot... Lets see what happens..i just wish that we both end up being happy...
@krisnel (498)
• Philippines
18 Mar 10
tell to your girlfriend regarding what you feel when she talked to her some guy friend.
@krisnel (498)
• Philippines
18 Mar 10
you should not act like that. you cant resolved a problem in a phone only. why dont you talked to her personally. if they are not doing anything just talking. why do get hate her? are you jealous?
• India
18 Mar 10
hmmm...thanks for the reply..!! I kinda get..yes..jealous.. I talked to her and she said that my feels are right..and she said that she loves me the most.. I cant talk to her personally cause she is not with me locally..she is out in some other city pursuing her studies...I miss her so much... I guess it will be resolved soon... :)
@magikrose (5423)
• United States
17 Mar 10
I am a married woman and I also have many male friends with whom I talk to and text on my cell alot. That dosnt mean I dont love my husband because I do. I love my husband more than He realises. The things is we all need friends, and women make friends with men easier than they do with other women. I wish my husband had more female friends or just more friends in general to talk to but over all that is His choice. me personally I am a people person and enjoy talking to people.
• India
18 Mar 10
yea...thats right...friends re required... and what you said about gal making more guys friends is correct.. I kinda..make myself relaxed by explaining the fact to myself that they are all friends only...
• India
17 Mar 10
hello my dear friend if your not happy with your girlfriend then dump its the better solution and i think your cool guy so you can find many more girls so don't worry and go ahead and totally dump your present girl friend.
• India
17 Mar 10
Hii..!! Its not about dumping..we both love each other a lot..but when she talks to some other guy i get some kind of mysterious feelings..And its ok to talk to few guy friends but she has loads of them and i dunno what she talks to them...