what's real love anyway?
By guaifenesin
@guaifenesin (4)
March 18, 2010 9:18am CST
if you say "i love you" to a person, then it would have been a real one. the question is, will it actually end when it was supposed to be real? how can a person just say "i just fell out of love" in just a click?
2 responses
@artsyfartsygypsy (755)
• Canada
18 Mar 10
if you can fall out of love then it wasnt rel love. When you really love someone you will love them forever. You may not like the person anymore or because of something they did (such as cheat) you dont "love them the same way anymore". That just means that you still love them but because of what they did they changed your view on them and therefore are "not the same person they fell in love with". Its all very true to me. I mean you get only so many great loves in life and the ones that you truly did love you love for life, even if you dont stay together.
@guaifenesin (4)
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19 Mar 10
you have a point and you're actually right. too bad to finally realize that it was never real after all. now, moving on.
@artsyfartsygypsy (755)
• Canada
19 Mar 10
Im sorry that you didnt realize it at the time, that it happened at all and that you have to go through this now. I hope moving on isnt to difficult for you adn that everythign works out okay for you. Just remeber why your mving on and that its about you and your mental, emotional, physical and spiritual health rather than whether or not your with someone. Good luck. :)
@darkdeivu (257)
• Philippines
16 Apr 10
real love means true love right? We all know that true love means putting another person’s need before your own; one cannot be selfish in love or expect to have things their own way all the time. Therefore, you need to ask yourself if you are willing to sacrifice everything that you have built for yourself so that your significant other could be happy. For example, if your partner has the chance to get a wonderful job in another city, are you willing to put everything you have at stake to make this shift easy for him or her or would you expect your partner to prioritize you at the cost of his or her career? While blind agreement to any difference of opinion is unrealistic and unreasonable, a thoughtful discussion of what is better for each of you individually as well as both of you as a couple needs to take place.
