A person is cheating him/her self if says---------------???
By umit_umit
@umit_umit (1984)
India
March 18, 2010 2:28pm CST
Lotters,how far it true that you find many persons,who says that they want to live alone,and will not marry for their whole life?is it possible that aperson can live all alone without any family ,and if friends they may be engaged in their own life and my not be able to give time to that person!is it possible?Even i have seen many who says that they will not even adopt kids!and will stay alone!how it is possible?who are they who say like this!are they running from life!or they are weak from inside to face the challanges of life?please coul you sugget?
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4 responses
@coffeegurl (1467)
• United States
18 Mar 10
I don't have kids,but I probably don't earn enuff to adopt.
@umit_umit (1984)
• India
19 Mar 10
oh dear!neh mind atleast you are living with your bf,it hardly matters you can adopt the child after sometime!
@nicolec (2671)
• United States
19 Mar 10
I live alone and there is nothing wrong with that. I do not run from life. I enjoy the quiet. It's peaceful to me. Do I want kids, maybe some day. But I am in no position, financially or other wise to have children. So I continue to live alone. There is nothing wrong with it.
@AllenChen (14)
• China
19 Mar 10
Hi,nicolec,I agree with you.i also live by myself,but i have a little different to you.
Say something about myself,I don't know how much do you know about China,I'm from China, you know the most of Chinese girls who wants marry a rich man that fist you must have a house in city .It's a really hard things to a young man,they can;t afford to the high housing price,so in the most situation it shows NO house NO love.I'm the one of the most, we eager love but we can't
have a nice day....:)
@umit_umit (1984)
• India
19 Mar 10
no dear there is no harm in living alone,if you are really happy from inside,friend,as it true that you find peace more when you are alone and there is nobody to interfere in yours affairs!yes i have seen many adopted kids and they want to live alone!some have dedicated thweir lives for the social service!there is no harm absolutely no harm!
@rsa101 (37933)
• Philippines
19 Mar 10
Well if you are asking if it is possible I guess it is possible. There are many out there that choose this kind of a life and is happy with how they run their life. I guess you have to understand that there are people like these and we should understand that because I am pretty sure they have valid reasons to choose that kind of a life. They are not weak or something because living alone is much difficult than having a family to lean on so they must be strong willed persons because they have to live a life on their own.
@umit_umit (1984)
• India
19 Mar 10
well,really friends I am getting very good suggestions from all of you,its a new prespective that these persons are more strong as they want to live alone!a new point!as its very difficult to live alone!really we can question anybody!its everybodys own life,but the society is a junk and crap!nothing else!
@churchill1980 (764)
• Philippines
19 Mar 10
i think they do it because they don't want to take the responsibilities that would last a lifetime. or it might be that they are afraid to get hurt with broken marriage. but, whatever their reasons are, we cannot question them, after all, it is their life. they must decide on it.
@umit_umit (1984)
• India
19 Mar 10
churchill,its also true,as we are terribally hurted when we broke off!or some are staying alone as they have been after so much time of being together!broke off and then they feel like its useless now to form apartner,may they are in middle ages in life span!now they cant take it anymore!well its everybody individual perspective towards the life!
