How can you tell if the person you are in a relationship with is the RIGHT one?

@mcnash (19)
Philippines
March 19, 2010 5:42pm CST
I have asked myself this a few dozen times. I know for sure that my girlfriend is the one. Weve been living together for almost 6 years now, just waiting for the right time to get married. We have been through thick and thin and have survived all sorts of problems. I am actually directing the question to you, guys, I know the answer to my own question but as its different for everyone, different experiences, different relationships, different problems...I would love for you to share your own views about this.
3 responses
@phoenix8606 (4977)
21 Mar 10
hi! well, i think I can tell it easy, because when I meet her, I will know it for sure, I will recognize it in her voice, in her character, in her look. because the right girl for me should be with a great sense of humor, should be really pretty, should has the same interests like me, and i really think that someday i will meet her, but still don't know when :)
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• Brazil
20 Mar 10
I believe that we can not say we feel. If we feel is the right person, then she is! However if not, do not say anything. Feel right next to the person who is with you. That's it. Be happy and do not worry.
@mcnash (19)
• Philippines
22 Mar 10
Yes, good point! Exactly what I got in mind. If it feels right, that is all that matters. Thanks for sharing your thoughts.
• United States
20 Mar 10
Honestly, mine was love at first sight. I fell in love with him right away. It was as if I had already met and knew him. I have yet to lose that feeling and honestly, I love him even more now. I have never believed in love at first sight but it happened to me so now I am a believer lol.
@mcnash (19)
• Philippines
22 Mar 10
I don't really believe in love at first sight but have heard of similar stories like the one you just told me, which makes me want to believe there really is such a thing. The way I understand how it works, true love is not physical attraction. It is love shared by two people who find each other attractive inside and out.. Thanks for sharing! :-)