my bestfriend - my dream GUY.
By muning
@muning (52)
Philippines
March 20, 2010 4:51am CST
I have this closest guy, who courted me a year ago, however i rejected him because that time i broke up with my ex and not ready for a commitment. he's always there at my side.. years ago, he told me that he has a girlfriend, and i have mine too, however, i was surprised when he told me that thing.... I'm her best friend and yet i didn't even know that he's courting someone. time comes that my boyfriend and i broke up and as usual my best friend is there to comfort me. I feel weird because from the start i know to myself that i love him and i choose our friendship over the relationship because i know its the only way we can be together forever. and now i don't have any communication to him, but i got to chance to tell him that i love him but i know its too late, and regrets is in my heart right now.. i can't fall someone else, my heart can't love someone else. what will i do?
5 responses
@eLsMarie (4346)
• Philippines
22 Mar 10
I'm proud of you that you were able to tell your best friend the truth. Though it sounds bad that you no longer have any communication, at least, he never took advantage of you. I hope that you'll be able recover and realize that there are a lot of fishes in the sea.
@krisnel (498)
• Philippines
22 Mar 10
its too late for you to realize that you love him. you still might have a chance for him because he is not yet married. what does he say about your feeling? as of the moment the only thing that you can do is to hangout with others. if your bestfriend is happy right now, let him be.
@xtremelyperfect (94)
• Malaysia
20 Mar 10
First of all, keep in touch with him.
Wait for him if you feel that you cannot love someone else other than him.
Who knows he might break up with his girlfriend in the future?
But don't close your options yet.
You might find someone else when you least expect it.
@Mike4me (567)
• Philippines
20 Mar 10
Well you have to start communicating with him again and rebuild the friendship you once had and start it from there. You will know if he still have feelings for you soon enough but if he won't tell you he loves you again, then you have to atleast let him know, you won't regret anything tho, you will still be friends.
