What if deep friendship becoming over possesiveness leading to hate?

India
March 20, 2010 9:42pm CST
Possesiveness in any friendship is common, but overloading of possesiveness will only lead to hate and fight and this is common to love also? smaller mistakes also becoming a big issue between relationships, how to handle if any friend/lover of us is very much possesive about us? how to convince them?
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eM
@eLsMarie (4346)
• Philippines
22 Mar 10
Just be honest in telling them that you're not happy to how they became so possessive to you. I once experience having a possessive boyfriend and he was terrible. If I continue having relationship with him, it makes me feel like I'm risking my life.
poniface1983
@poniface1983 (132)
• India
23 Mar 10
Yes eLsMarie, its correct, I am going to tell that to him, sometimes it is irritating and do not know how to tell that to them because I am afraid if we go and say like this, they will get hurt...
eM
@eLsMarie (4346)
• Philippines
23 Mar 10
If he takes your honesty as an insult on his part, I don't think he's worth it.
laglen
@laglen (19759)
• United States
21 Mar 10
I do not think possessiveness in a friendship is common. I think it is unhealthy. When people get possessive, there are bigger issues involved.