are you the jealous type?

@Cutie18f (9551)
Philippines
March 21, 2010 4:14pm CST
One user here was talking about love, how much it hurts, etc. I totally agreed with her since much of the time being in love or in a relationship brings a lot of hurts and tears especially when you're the jealous and possessive type. I know the feeling of jealousy very well because I am the jealous type too and it is an awful feeling. You don't want your loved one to talk with another girl or boy. You don't want him to be texting someone secretly and you think he is doing this and so you try to read his messages in secret. It's awful. Jealousy is like a monster that drains you of all positive energy and leaves you only with a rotten feeling. So---are you the jealous type of person?
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@joan2010 (45)
• China
22 Mar 10
It's good you have foucd that you are jealous and posseeesive type,if you can adjust the bad type, it will be perfect.Trying to trust your lover and also yourself,you will find your life will be more wonderfull.You need't to bo so nervous,just be relax,you will lead a colerful live.If not you will hate youself more and more ,even hurt your lover's heart ,and the ralationship has to go to the end .Nobody wants it happen.How about changing your attitude?
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• Philippines
22 Mar 10
i used to be a jealous type of person. very jealous and possessive, not until i realize i am just hurting myself in doing so. for i could never be happy and i could not be at peace with myself. whenever my bf is not around, things are playing on my mind. reason why i search for a person i could really be trusted with, and someone who will reassure me with so much love and affection. i also tried to be kind to myself, and of course to my partner, whenever i get jealous right now, i talk to him and tell him i felt bad. i don't resort to throwing things anymore like what i did before.
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@laglen (19759)
• United States
21 Mar 10
jealousy is a sickness. this will rule you. Why not see a counselor to see why your so jealous and try to fix it. It is very unhealthy. Reality - you can have a wonderful relationship filled with love and trust.
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• United States
21 Mar 10
Yes, I'm extremely jealous! I'm not the type of person that will secretly read my boyfriend's text messages, but I do let my jealousy get the better half of me. I tend to get defensive towards him and start to ask questions a lot. Talking to other girls make me jealous, regardless of who they are, but I try to let him have his friends.
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@cloud31 (5809)
22 Mar 10
No Im not that jealous type,I seldom have this feeling but once it strikes me this a very serious situation , so I really don't want to tolerate that feeling it will surely hurt my partner.This is not really good in terms of relationship.Happy myLooting!
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@mikoiks2 (216)
• Indonesia
22 Mar 10
Of course, I'm jealeous man. I can't live if my girlfriends walk with another people. If she do this, Maybe I must try to find anothe girl to come with me.
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@cryw0lf (1302)
• United Kingdom
21 Mar 10
I'm the extremely jealous type!! (Unfortunately).. Ive had bad experiences, and from them i've become desperately paranoid. Thankfully my boyfriend is the type to reassure me, and well, all he goes on about is me anyway.
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@jd107nette (1454)
• Philippines
22 Mar 10
i was, but not anymore or i guess just a little bit. i don't get jealous so easily and if i do i would wait for him to open the topic. i trust him a lot and he is not the type who would do something like that. :) i don't want to make a fight with him. and he proved that there is no need for me to get jealous. :) he would even send a message with the phone infront of me. :) and getting rid of jealousy made our relationship better. :)
@___SKY___ (541)
• Hong Kong
22 Mar 10
Hi! Yes i am a jealous type too! even i trust my girl, i cant resist this feeling, because i love her. I think jealous is a normal, but it depends on the situation. Anyway, that is me, the jealous guy lol.. Have a nice day!!!
@nangisha (3496)
• Indonesia
22 Mar 10
I am jealous type, I don't like my man to close to another girl. I usually talk about my feeling to him to avoid problem in future, so he will know what I don't like to develop understanding among us. But sometimes jealousy come I try to overcome it with positive thinking, and you are right its takes so many energy.
• Romania
22 Mar 10
Nea I'm the least jealous person in the world, not only in relationships, but among friends and family too, it's no use to be jealous. everyone is free, no one is bound.
@bestylish (922)
• Philippines
22 Mar 10
I don't think that I'm the jealous type since I still haven't experience Love. I experienced love of parents but not the actual love of an entirely different person.
• China
22 Mar 10
I think most girls have the feeling of jealous. My boyfriend is a type of honest one, but I still suspect him a lot. After some quarrels, I found it hurt both of us. I don't know who said the saying like: a woman should not noly be clever, but also be wistom. I think it is meaningful. Sometimes we girls need be jealous to show how much we care the boys, this will make them have the feeling of achievement. if the boys have normal contacts with classmates or colleagues, we have to be tolerant to show the the boys that they have enough space for his own. If they did something abnormal, we can reminde them in a strict way to let them know they may lose you if they don't care. It is easy to say, so I still try my best to control the feeling of jealous.
• United States
22 Mar 10
I'm very jealous too, but I've been cheated on by every guy I have been with,so I have good reasons for being jealous.I thought the man I'm married too now would never cheat on me, but he did.I think everyone needs to be alittle jealous.
@eLsMarie (4346)
• Philippines
22 Mar 10
I'm not really a jealous type of a person but if I can witness actions to my partner that can cause me to become jealous then that's the time when I react negatively but not on a sever stage.
• Philippines
22 Mar 10
Yes I'm the jealous type too,i still doesn't have any experience in being in a relationship but I know myself the best,I know that I'm a jealous type it's because i have a secret crush but it's not a secret anymore cause dozens of my friends already knows about this and whenever he have any girl talking to him there's a piercing feeling inside my heart,and it hurts so much!well i think if I'm going to be in a relationship it'll be troublesome for me cause I will get so jealous if my lover is talking to another girl,it's because I want him to be mine only mine :)