What would be deal breakers for your relationship?
22 Mar 10
I think when he breaks my trust, then it's definitely a deal breaker. I don't believe in having a relationship with someone if you cannot trust each other. I think trust is the most important thing, even more important than love, cause even if you leave each other, but you don't trust them, then the relationship just won't work, cause you'll both be always arguing because of jealousy...
• United States
22 Mar 10
His past. Most individuals do not do background checks on individuals they meet and they should if they are contemplating a relationship with them. No matter what it is everyone has a story and an excuse for what they did or had happened to them. We read it in the news all the time lately how the other person had no clue of their mates past or their involvement. In today's times we must take a proactive stand and learn about people and not only see what they represent. I mean I would not feel comfortable knowing I am with a person who killed someone even by accident or self defense. I do not want to be lied to. If children are involved and he is not seeing them, why? Family is important and if are not active in your child's life then why would I want you? Your Child should be your prized possession in a sense. If you give up on your child then I do not have time for you either. Employment and security. I do not want a person that gives excuses all the time as to why he cannot get a job or why he does not own anything to make himself look better. Lies , deceit, and a host of other things can be a huge turnoff , so I cannot just name one because most are in a package. By doing the first thing , you should have a sense of what this guy or girl is like to make an educated decision about your potential relationship in the making.