Do you like to go for shopping with your girl?
By mr_pearl
@mr_pearl (5018)
India
March 23, 2010 12:34am CST
Shopping is a hobby for many women. For some of them it is a kind of stress-buster. For many of them, it is a way to overcome some heart-ache... Just now, I responded to a discussion where the author has asked whether it is proper for a man to help a lady with her bags, while shopping... And I remembered the past incidents in my life.
A friend of mine, with whom I had a relationship later, had told me that guys always hated to go with girls for shopping. Because girls took a lot of time to select their articles and would come up with many questions, which the boys couldn't answer. The process was too lengthy for the patience of boys...etc...
And then, she asked me whether I would go with her for her shopping. I said, I would, with pleasure and I meant it! I never saw any problem with lengthy shopping hours.. Moreover, I like to help ladies with shopping. It gives room for creativity and imagination, as to what will suit the lady that I am with! It is fun to help them select articles and carry their bags, when they keep forgetting things here and there.
How is it with you guys? Do you like to help your girl with shopping? Or do you leave it to her and her friends?
And ladies, has your guy helped you with shopping? What is his immediate reaction, when you ask him to come with you to the mall?
Please share and let the myLotters know, your views upon shopping... Happy myLotting! 
And then, she asked me whether I would go with her for her shopping. I said, I would, with pleasure and I meant it! I never saw any problem with lengthy shopping hours.. Moreover, I like to help ladies with shopping. It gives room for creativity and imagination, as to what will suit the lady that I am with! It is fun to help them select articles and carry their bags, when they keep forgetting things here and there.
How is it with you guys? Do you like to help your girl with shopping? Or do you leave it to her and her friends?
And ladies, has your guy helped you with shopping? What is his immediate reaction, when you ask him to come with you to the mall?
Please share and let the myLotters know, your views upon shopping... Happy myLotting! 6 responses
@windpain (25)
• Philippines
23 Mar 10
I don't mind going shopping with my girl. I think it's a lot of fun. It gives me time for her. We are too busy lately. Shopping could be a reliever, it makes me know my girl better. Maybe we could go shopping this weekend. Hmmm... what an idea.
@mr_pearl (5018)
• India
23 Mar 10
Hello pal... Thanks for sharing... I absolutely agree with you! It is fun to be with the girl and shop. I get to know her closely and her likes/dislikes are more defined... And yet, some people think that it is not proper... What would you tell them?
Have a nice time!
@quita88 (3715)
• United States
26 Mar 10
I truly enjoy guys who help me. Whether it is for clothing or
groceries.
I think guys could learn a lot from shopping with women.
I like to help guys too and their interests are just as
important to them as mine are to me.
Thanks for helping your lady friend. I'm sure she apprectiates
you help and consideration.
@advokatku (4033)
• Indonesia
23 Mar 10
accompany women shopping is work the most annoying and just waste of time for the male who accompanied his .... why? because if women shopped, she was not enough visit one store. If at the mall, there 20 stores, perhaps, one by one store will be visited ...
and that much more annoying is when the woman's do bargaining for goods to be bought his, althogh in the store had written the words "fixed prices, non-negotiable"
@mr_pearl (5018)
• India
23 Mar 10
I agree with all the reasons that you have given here... Thanks for sharing with us. I know it may get boring with all the reasons that you've given. But think of this, you can get to know your girl properly, her likes/dislikes etc. They way she bargains may help you to know the things that you could never know...
What do you say? Again thanks for replying and I look forward to have more discussion upon this... Your post is really interesting... Have a nice time!
What do you say? Again thanks for replying and I look forward to have more discussion upon this... Your post is really interesting... Have a nice time! 
@jennyjenny1 (66)
• China
23 Mar 10
i would like to go shopiing with my girl friend, because though my boy friend didn't show any impatient of that, i dont want to force him to do what he didn't like. and i like go with my friends to shopping, because we have same interists, and it can also strenghthen our relathionship. what's more, go shoping with friends can also save money, because girls usually willing to negotiate with sellors, and i will cut the prices down if we are all bargain with the sellor. so for me, i would like to go shoping with my friends rather than my boy friend or my father.
@mikoiks2 (216)
• Indonesia
23 Mar 10
WEW, I think this is not good idea to be parnert when our girlfriends buy something or when shoping. It can make very bored, very uncomfortable if we do this activities. Maybe your girlfriends can shoping with her mom or her friends. It my reason and not agree if we be partner girlfriends when shoping.
