my mother in low want me separate with her son just because i eat rice with chip

Japan
March 23, 2010 2:12am CST
In Indonesia we all love to eat chip or crackers with rice it was really nice if you eat something and got sound of the food come from my mouth like when you eat cucumber or something else we not talk about it but when eat rice with the crackers is really good cause they have different taste and just nice go with the rest,but i come to Japan to my husband house and i can not eat without crackers so i bought from store and eat like always but my mom in law was really angry she said no one doing that in Japan but i do in my own house free for me to eat or not then she was tell me that i better going home to Indonesia and leave my husband who is her son,and now too sad we separate already because so many thing not only because the crackers,i ask my other Japanese friend to try eat rice with it and they love it.is really nice try it some and tell me what you think my dear friend...
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• United States
25 Mar 10
Your mother in law should not have kicked you out of the house just because of what you eat.She should respect your different taste in food.She should not worry about what other people think about this way of eating. mAybeE she shouldtry it she may like it.It is a shame that she forced you out of your home.Your husband should learn how to stick up for you.Any how do not let her bother you and eat what you like.
• Japan
25 Mar 10
she just jealous i took her son:) she want him back...and i did give her to make her happy lol
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• Philippines
23 Mar 10
I think your mother in law is being mean. She's just finding a reason to kick you out of the house that is why she tells you that it's the rice with chip issue that has caused the separation. Anyway, you are already married to your husband right? Why not just live in a separate house away from his mother? I mean, it's only rational that once you get married, you move out of the house and start a life of your own. Anyway I don't know much about the Japanese culture but if your husband really loves you he'll do something about it so you won't have to be away from each other.
• Japan
23 Mar 10
well i have my own house then one day she move on to our house for no reasons any way we already separate so nothing can bring us back again even so...that will be more trouble cause different culture:) thank you for the comment