a friendship can become love but not vice versa : do you agree

@1anurag1 (3576)
India
March 23, 2010 4:11pm CST
i think this happens in reality we become friends first and the time comes when we just care about each other and involve alot with each other. and dont get when we are in love. but when there is a breakup we cant be like friends only. so what are your views.
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@kerrypu (13)
• United States
23 Mar 10
I agree. I had something like that, we were real good friends and broke up and then she said we could still be "friends" and we didn't even talk or interact. People might say that their still friends, but when you don't talk at all, how can you be friends?
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@atv818 (1980)
• United Arab Emirates
24 Mar 10
Love can blossom either way but most of the time a couple starts out first as friends before falling in love. It is very rare that attraction first then friendship later. This often happens with love at first sight. People may view this occurence as union by destiny or fate.
@syankee525 (6261)
• United States
24 Mar 10
yeah i think sometime we are friends first, and then we can fall in love. just like me and my wife. but i do have two females friends i am close too, i dont see me falling in love with them at all. i do have that brother love for them. but even if i did start having strong feeling for them i wouldnt follow through with it. sometime its better just to be friends then becoming lovers
@jd107nette (1454)
• Philippines
24 Mar 10
so true... it's very difficult to regain the loss accompanied by a break up.. and it's quite easy to level up the friendship into love....
@anurag3786 (6267)
• India
24 Mar 10
yes it is true.. because when to persons met first time and they accept each other as a friends.. but slowly-2 they comes more near to each other.. and having great feeling for each other.. and they cared for each others.. and one day this friendship converts into love.. it's very beautiful.. but after sometimes.. their breakup.. it's very very painful.. and i think.. after..breakup to treat each other as a normally friends.. really it is very very difficult.. because they had more feelings for each other..so it is very-2 painful to treat as friends to each other.. have a nice day and keep mylotting always..
• Philippines
24 Mar 10
My views are beautiful on this cuz i actually am in good terms with my ex. after we broke up though, we had our prides way up high. we didnt want to forgive each other but as time passed, we eventually found the heart to forgive. and now we re friends.