Is life really unfair??

Life is hard not unfair. You will have peaks and valleys to go through. The last few years have been challenging for me. 6 years ago my Mom passed away and I was very close to her. I had the support of my church and community to get through that. Family members were not that much help. I have great days and I have bad days. I just pray and know that God is giving me strength to get through these storms. Each time you go through them you get stronger and usually learn something about yourself. I have felt many times when things go wrong life is not fair and how come this person has it better than me. I have to worry about my bills, I don't have a great job right now. Then I just think about the things I have good health, roof over my head, the best dog ever Bandit, my church family. I know the grass may look greener on the other side but just remember those other people who seem to have everything going their way they have problems as well. Life is challenging and it can also be very rewarding. One thing it isn't is never boring. Peace

life is pretty much how you want it to be. fair, unfair, cold, fun, sad, exciting, exhilirating, intoxicating, etc.. if you want life to be fun the go out there and have some fun.

It's fair if your life is going well, unfair when it's not going good at all. I sometimes really think like "Wow, if I could choose, it would be done here" or just try to go to bed. If multiple difficulties appear in one day it might all seem unfair, as it changes to fair when you're hanging out with friends, having a good time. You got to make life fun, to think it's fair.