do you know how to say *go a way*without hurting their feeling?tell me:(
By anitarei321
@anitarei321 (548)
Japan
March 24, 2010 8:12pm CST
since i work in club as a singer and dancer people around me knows that i am single mom and work hard for my kid,there is no problem with me i am happy doing my job:)but i found a lot people come to me willing to help,care too much,wanted me this and that some of them often say stay with me i ll make you happy this and that when i am not ready to open my heart for it,i am focus in my work busy myself,but i feel like people around me make me feel more tired,i want them to stay away from me at the moment but i don`t know how and what to say to make them away i am scared to hurt their feeling,really need space for myself some how,i do i need them but is not mean they have to come too close on me and feel gonna killing me with their love and care that i am not really sure,i don`t one some body take control on me just because they help me something,so tell me how to say go a way without hurting them...thanks my friend....love you all:)
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5 responses
@eLsMarie (4346)
• Philippines
25 Mar 10
Since people consider you to be a public figure though you're not a celebrity, there's are those who admire you in so many ways. You're talented and I would assume that you're good looking so they are few who can't control their emotions (their desire to be with you). Just speak to them in a nice way. People tend to be unconscious when they're drunk or just tipsy so maybe that's the reason why they can no longer handle themselves normally.
@anitarei321 (548)
• Japan
25 Mar 10
you right if normal man without drinking,ask me for dating start with friend...i would like to say yes lol:)thanks
@dimitarivanov (228)
• Netherlands
25 Mar 10
Well I tried so many times, but the more gentle I try to be the more hurt they seem to be. I don't know how this always happens, so lately (in my relationships) I've been direct and straightforward - I'm sorry we can't see each other anymore. Sometimes I am also vague, to leave myself an option to come back if I reconsider. But so far I never did :) heheh
@anitarei321 (548)
• Japan
25 Mar 10
the problem is free for them to see me:)i can`t run cause i work there:)thanks
@happy2512 (1266)
• Philippines
25 Mar 10
Just tell them in a nice way that you are not ready yet to be involved in a relationship because you love your work & kid. Or that you are not really sure of having someone in your life for now because you enjoy yourself being alone. I hope this will help you out. Good Luck!
