What are shocking revelation you've heard so far?
By amyson
@amyson (3498)
Philippines
March 25, 2010 1:32am CST
I like to share a shocking revelation which we shock when my whole family knows about my brother in law secrecy.21 years of secrecy been hiding by my brother in law.my sister had her first daughter when she was 19 it was unplanned pregnancy.i think they started dating for only 3 months then they married.in 16 years of marriage it was a rocky road his husband loss a job and now my sister are the one working for the her family.one time an adult guy went to see his father name of his husband.my sister wasn't aware of it until be talk about it a month ago.the sister of his husband was the one knows that someone is looking for my brother in law.because the guy telling that he had a son from his past girlfriend before my sister got married.she hide it for 21 years of marriage.but the photos cant be deny they are look-alike so it was a shocking revelation for our family that his husband been lying for many years of marriage.since we are very concern about the situation my mom,sister was talking to my sister what if his husband has another child from other women.my sister said was asking why you telling me this anything that i dont know and please tell me what is happening.my mom said your husband has a son older from her daughter from other women.my sister was shocking she cant believe it because his husband was been so nice in their marriage life.how they can recover from this shocking revelation?did you experience or heard something like this?
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@ada8may21 (2405)
• Philippines
25 Mar 10
That would be so shocking on the part of your sister. On my part I also had a great revelation for my parents. It was very hard to deal at first, I even dont know how to start telling them about it. Until I gather all my courage and let out my brave soul, to tell them that i was pregnant and the man responsible for it is missing in action. My mother was speechless and my dad just cried. They try to accept it one day at a time. They try to understand me and accept me until such time that they have accepted me fully.
For me that is the tremendous experience I ever had for my entire life.
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@LetranKnight25 (33121)
• Philippines
25 Mar 10
that is so sad, but at least youhavea child that will endlessly love you. i hope the guy get it to his conscience. don't worry am sure your parents love you and understands what you've been through. just move on with your life.
@amyson (3498)
• Philippines
25 Mar 10
yes that is also shocking story..thank you for sharing your revelation openly.for them of course that is painful because they maybe expect so much from you.but im sure they accepted it because your parents love your and parents are always in our side.just moving on and start a better living with your son.
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@ada8may21 (2405)
• Philippines
25 Mar 10
Thats what I am doing now and thank you Lord for all the blessings that I am receiving now. Done a terrible thing for my loving parents, the guilt is still here and trying to fill in that guilt i feel now.
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@dawnald (85135)
• Shingle Springs, California
25 Mar 10
My aunt found out several things when researching the family tree. First she found out that she was a twin and that her sister was stillborn. Second she found out that her mother was probably illegitimate and not Jewish. by the time she learned this, my grandparents were long gone and their secrets couldn't hurt anybody any more.
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@sid556 (30960)
• United States
26 Mar 10
Your story was a little hard to follow but I think I have it right. Your sister's husband just found out that he has a child with another woman from before he was with your sister? That is a shock but I would think it would be workable if their marriage is strong enough. I mean, it happened many years ago and he did not even know about it so it isn't as if he lied to her or anything. I am guessing that it is as much of a shock to him as it is everyone else. I think that at a time like this your sister should be supportive and in doing so it will strenghthen their relationship rather than ruin it.
@iceydon (342)
• Philippines
25 Mar 10
There many situations like this one. The good thing about this is the fact that your brother in law has been with your sister for a long time. And he has been so nice in their marriage. Human mistakes are inevitable yet to live a life away from that mistakes is better that dwelling on that mistakes. He may not hidden his son for 21 years. May be he had just abandoned him with his mother after giving birth. You can see the transformation of your brother in law. He could have left your sister after the unplanned pregnancy and never married her. But he got learned already with his mistake of abandoning his son so he might have decided to marry your sister. May be if not of his mistake he might have run away from your sister.
@p3ks626 (6538)
• Philippines
25 Mar 10
I had the revelation before I got married. So far, there's nothing revealed. Maybe not yet but who knows maybe there would be some revelations some day.
The revelation I had before marriage was something I thought was going to be okay for me but I was having a hard time accepting it when I was already dealing with it. I always thought that I was gonna be okay and that I would be helped out overcome the concerns but I always have to be strong for myself cause I wont then who would?
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@thaMARKER (2503)
• Philippines
25 Mar 10
i guess that's shocking. i cant imagine what would be my reaction if a family member has this kind of revelation. it'll take time for me to accept it or eve digest it first.
i would be very sad for sure if this will happen to us. :( but i guess i have to accept it.
@ethanonthemoon (1494)
• Quezon, Philippines
25 Mar 10
That the end of the world is at hand. The signs are showing right in front of our eyes.
@LetranKnight25 (33121)
• Philippines
25 Mar 10
hello amyson,
if there was such secret, i'd rather keep it to myself. or not to hear it since it's not my business. frankly, i know there's a lot of secrets to this family. even I have secrets that my brothers doesn't even know till this day but i prefer to keep it quiet i prefer for the family not to expose secrets.@amyson (3498)
• Philippines
26 Mar 10
we dont know how he do that to my sister for long years of marriage ups and down of course everyone secret reveal.i believe if you love the person he should be honest before by saying he pregnated another woman so that marriage wont happen because the child is a gift and not to abandoned in any means.
