When One Woman Loves Two Men

@raulj1 (111)
Philippines
March 25, 2010 8:04pm CST
This woman is recently working. She knew her first boyfriend way back in college. They broke up but promised to meet again in three years and patch things up if they remained single. Both parents approved their relationship. In between those years, she got another boyfriend and the man is already working. However, both of their parents are against their relationship. After three years, her first boyfriend came to visit her and has remained single, too! She wants to break up with one of them but both have the same weight in her heart. What will she do?
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@meng23 (145)
• Philippines
4 Apr 10
I dont believe that both of them has the same weight in your heart. Maybe you both love them but the level of intimate is different. Or your just afraid to give up one from them because your afraid to regret if ever you've chosen the wrong one. Better think who is the most important person. Who do you really love at the present not in the past. Someone you are happy with. And you can trust. I know it is very difficult and really can cause headache and heartache. But the decision is still in you. Try to recall everything that you've gone then soon you will realize who really dserves you. If ever it happens to me I think I would give up them. I will explain to them the real reason and my purpose. Because I don't want to hurt them. I will spend time to myself.Thinking and knowing myself. What I really want . Knowing the flow of my mind. And I believe that if that man really loves me no matter what happen he would still be there for me in my weakest hour.And he would be there to understand me. I already experience this. Being the one who will choose from them and also I experience to be one of the choices. It really hurts but Im thankful I overcome it. THank God.. I become stronger..
@laydee (12798)
• Philippines
26 Mar 10
I don't think it's possible for a person to love more than one person at the same weight. There will always be preferences. Perhaps she loves the other (college) guy because the parents approve of him, while loves the other guy because he's caring etc. She must decide what's important to her, and should not be selfish. If she does remain selfish, soon she will realize that mistake when both of them would be gone.