You feel uncomfortable when u sit besides the persons who is opp. to ur gender.?
By siliguri
@siliguri (4241)
India
March 26, 2010 12:45am CST
Talk about me..i feel very uncomfortable
when anyone sit besides me..who is opposite to my gender...While when i'm travelling in bus or any place..usually i get from the place..and sit on another place.. very funny.but its true..Whats about u friends...?
when anyone sit besides me..who is opposite to my gender...While when i'm travelling in bus or any place..usually i get from the place..and sit on another place.. very funny.but its true..Whats about u friends...?10 responses
@binagupta (627)
• India
26 Mar 10
Yes dear, this incident has happened with me many times i really feel uncomfortable but i thing slowly by slowly i am getting habituated now this world is running in very fast process so, every body is busy in their life so just build up your confidence and carry on your work..
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@samson1967 (7411)
• India
26 Mar 10
I am the other way, I sit gently without disturbing the opposite genders, but I also enjoy the little bits of brushing, which happens while bus has to pass on the humps and bumps.
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@SomeCowgirl (32189)
• United States
28 Mar 10
I can't say that I feel uncomfortable unless I am not with my husband and it is someone around my age. If so I try to ignore them as I don't want to get up for fear they'd be insulted. I haven't actually ever come across this though, or not to my knowledge. I may have but wasn't paying attention either! :D
@EnslinPorter (1718)
• Philippines
26 Mar 10
I'm all right sitting next to persons who is of opposite gender. I'm sort of tomboyish and I used to play with boys when I was a kid. In the bus, I sit with a group of boys and so, I'm used to sit next to them. 

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@phoenix8606 (4942)
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26 Mar 10
hell0! nope, I have never felt uncomfortable sitting to a girl, because there is nothing uncomfortable in that:)
I even feel well, because it is really nice sitting to a girl, especially to a girl, who is funny, clever and pretty 

@Ramsesxlll (1431)
• Finland
26 Mar 10
Yeah, me too
I would kinda enjoy it too, but not if I disgust her...
Happy myLotting 
I would kinda enjoy it too, but not if I disgust her...
Happy myLotting 
@Biomechanoid (2922)
• Estonia
26 Mar 10
I don't think I am too uncomfortable with having some strange girl close to me. But when on long bus trips, I prefer sitting alone in general. It allows me to relax and I don't have to keep myself awake.
@anurag3786 (6265)
• India
26 Mar 10
Yes i feel uncomfortable when i talk to a person who are girl.. and i met her first time.. because i have a very shy nature.. so i feel this first time talking.. but after that i don't feel nervous.. because after one meetings i know her.. and don't feel uncomfortable again when i talked to her.. have a nice day and keep mylotting always...



@cowboyofhell (3063)
• Philippines
27 Mar 10
When the girl beside me have nice body I dont mind but when she is fat, I get dizzy to an extent. Other girl are assertive and sit next to me and I wonder why I cant stay away from her. 

@common_man (1799)
• India
26 Mar 10
Hi silguri,
I can't believe that u can be that kind of a lady, who changes seat if the person siting next happens to be a male in bus/train. Seeing your discussions, I never thought that you could do so! LOL
As regards me, it makes no difference to me who is sitting next to me in bus/train. If I enter a bus/train and there are more seats available then, i will not go and sit next to a lady, because I am considerate that lady may feel uncomfortable, But if only one seat, next to lady is available, i do not hesitate occupying it. I will ensure that, I do not make her uncomfortable when I am sitting next to her.
Enjoy, friend.
I can't believe that u can be that kind of a lady, who changes seat if the person siting next happens to be a male in bus/train. Seeing your discussions, I never thought that you could do so! LOL
As regards me, it makes no difference to me who is sitting next to me in bus/train. If I enter a bus/train and there are more seats available then, i will not go and sit next to a lady, because I am considerate that lady may feel uncomfortable, But if only one seat, next to lady is available, i do not hesitate occupying it. I will ensure that, I do not make her uncomfortable when I am sitting next to her.
Enjoy, friend.



...thanks for the response..have a nice day..





