Don't you feel good when you help other people?

churc in the orphange - here is the outer look of the church in the orphanage that I went to two years ago to help less fortunate kids..
@kyleuy (270)
March 26, 2010 1:07am CST
Don't you feel good when you help other people especially less fortunate ones? I remembered, I had this project on my religion subject two years ago where you need to help people. the more people you help the more points you gain for your project that is why I went to an orphanage for street children who doesn't have their parents anymore.. I brought food pizza and juices and treated those people who were celebrating their birthday for the month and played sports with them as well.. At the end of the day, its so hard to go because in just a few hours time you get to be close with them already and bonded with them but at the same time it felt so good that you were able to make this kids smile and give them hope. :) I just love the feeling of helping less fortunate people although it hurts me when i see people struggling in life.
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• Philippines
26 Mar 10
the fulfillment I feel when helping people is uncomparable. I fill so blessed that I can help others. Sometimes however, there are people who seem not to be satisfied with the help you could only give and wanted to ask for more, it makes me feel bad.
@kyleuy (270)
28 Mar 10
yes, there are other people who would take advantage of the help that we are providing them, well, we can't blame this people because it is not everyday in their life that they get help from some people. but the bottom line is that we still helped them and that is already a big help for them.
@ada8may21 (2405)
• Philippines
26 Mar 10
Well I really feel good if i could given a chance to help others. Its really good to share something that you have. I remember before I help an old lady who dont know how to cross the street, other guys are just passing her and cars keep on beeping her. My heart really pity on her and I assist her carry all the plastic bags she is carrying. She said she is looking for her daughter but she could not remember the address, she also could not remember the last name of her daughter because her daughter got married. So I bring her to the police station nearby to further assist her. That simple way of helping others without thinking of anything in return would really make your heart so big...
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@kyleuy (270)
28 Mar 10
wow, that is very nice of you.. some other people just don't care about it anymore and just thinks about theirselves only.. people doesn't care about people who needs their help that is why sometimes I feel so bad when I see people not helping others when they know that they can help them.
@ada8may21 (2405)
• Philippines
28 Mar 10
Exactly people now adays dont care about other people. They just think mostly of themselves and its very depressing coz I know most of those people are going to church and praying and then they cant simple offer to help others.
• Philippines
26 Mar 10
you re right. when i was doing community service when i was in first year college we donated canned goods and noodles to poor people. we handed them ourselves and the look on their faces as they reach for the food is priceless.
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@kyleuy (270)
28 Mar 10
yes, speaking of community service, I did render my community service on my last year or term in my school and we helped poor kids, we crested lessons for them as if we were their teacher and after every class we give them food..
@ghieptc (2522)
• Philippines
26 Mar 10
It's good to help unfortunate one because you are sharing your blessing. The more shared the more blessing to come. It's good to give than to receive.
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@kyleuy (270)
26 Mar 10
yes, you are right.. it is better to give than to receive. helping other people without expecting in return is one of the most simple yet most appreciative thing you can do for another human being. :)
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• Lithuania
26 Mar 10
Sure you need help to others, because we all need help.
• Philippines
26 Mar 10
it was several years ago when i allowed little children to climb up my treehouse. they climbed even if its high. i ended up going further up the tree to make way for them and they filled the platform twenty feet up the ground. im glad i let them climb for if not they may not have that rare chance to be up and above the tree. that tree doesnt exist now but the kids have experienced what they have to experience.
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@kyleuy (270)
28 Mar 10
wow that is so awesome! i wanna have my own tree house as well. A place to unwind and a place of solitude. :) I hope one day even if if old already i would still get to have my own tree house.. :)
• Philippines
26 Mar 10
Every body has an innate ability and want to help other people. The only reason why most people rise up to become more benevolent than the other is because they are "capable". How do we expect someone who's struggling as well to show a benevolent act to people who are in need around him? But like what Jesus teaches us always -- "a small kindness is like a seed that grows when watered with more tiny trinkets of kindness." I remember how my wife and I packed bags of candies to be given to street kids during holidays. The packing was very tedious but the reward was precious. We thought that it's time to give something back. We were having a tough time -- still are, I believe -- but God is the eye that sees all. He will bless us with abundance because we have our hands open -- and ready to share our blessings to people in need.
@kyleuy (270)
28 Mar 10
that is right, melloncollie but even those less fortunate people can render help because helping out others doesn't require monetary value, we can help other people spiritually, mentally or emotionally.. we can also give encouragement to others that is also a form of help already. Helping out has different branches to and anyone can help others in some particular way if they would want to. example, by being there for someone is already helping that person. :)
• Philippines
26 Mar 10
It always feels good to help other people only when you are not asked or forced to do it or the favor wasn't thrown at you. Helping people should be out of your own free will.
@kyleuy (270)
1 Apr 10
yes, of course helping should be voluntarily and it should always come from the heart.
• United Kingdom
26 Mar 10
I think it's a nice thing when you help other people! There are certainly good feelings to be experienced when you do something like this. I guess this is what makes the world go around! If we all helped eachother then the world would be a far better place to live I'm sure. I guess we are all at different stages of progress in life and there will always be someone that is far better off than ourselves and by the same token I'm pretty sure that we are better off than some people as well. I do believe in the concept of karma and that is what you do for others, this is coming back at you whether it be good or bad! Andrew
@kyleuy (270)
29 Mar 10
that is right Andrew, I do believe in karma as well.. No matter what you do to others it will always come back to you better than what you did good or vise versa, worst than what you did bad. As the saying goes.. what goes around comes back around.
@timhinyy (1653)
• United States
26 Mar 10
I can understand where you are coming from there as I always realize how fortunate I am for my parents as there are so many less fortunate then we are. I would definitely help out someone less fortunate then myself if I ever get the chance, because there are so many that don't have the greatest chances that life has to offer and being in the situation I was and my dad having a good job and us having a nice house. I would like to give back to others that may not of had it as good as we did and as I have gotten older I have gotten to better appreciate how lucky we were to have it as good as we did, and now that I am out on my own now I really understand how good we had it as kids, and the chance to give back and help out others that don't have it as good as us would be a great thing that we can do to give back to those less fortunate then we are, and I would love to have that chance to do that and would gladly do it if I had the chance.
@kyleuy (270)
30 Mar 10
Yes, the less fortunate ones doesn't even get to experience what life has to offer, they are not just poor in terms of monetary value but they are also poor in terms of their spiritual being. We should definitely help these people and be thankful that we are not the one on their position.
@josh_box (17)
• Philippines
26 Mar 10
yes it will feel me so good when im helping other person its a feeling that i cannot explain. its just like a fulliment in you life that you get with out any exchange. and it gave me always a food in my spirit every time i help a person. and its alsaw good if you help person with therer needs what ever hap[pen that person cannot forget you.
@kyleuy (270)
30 Mar 10
Yes, fulfillment is what we feel when we help other people as well and it helps us grow better if we do such things. One good return that you will get is that you will gain a lot offriends as well in helping others. :)
@kooltiger (848)
• Pakistan
26 Mar 10
i really feel nice helping others... especially when i see smile on their faces after helping them..... i try to do good deeds whenever i get the opportunity.... even we are helping each other with our views here in my lot... and some times the response make u very help because that solves the problem...
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@kyleuy (270)
28 Mar 10
that is so true kooltiger, a simple thank you and smile on their faces makes me feel so good, light and great already because i know for a fact that they appreciate the things that we do for them and that they are very thankful for the help that we extended to them.
• Philippines
27 Mar 10
It feels great when you help out people. I believe in good karma so I know that what goes around, comes around so better help as much as we can.
@kyleuy (270)
1 Apr 10
Yes, I do believe in karma as well and yes, what goes around comes back around, but you shouldn't just help because your expecting in return you should help because you want to and that you are not expecting anything in return at all.
• India
26 Mar 10
yes definitely...i feel blessed when i helped someone who is in need. whether its the unforutnate ines or the fortunates ones,helping is good. helping in the sense not to influence bad things. so obviously everybody feel blessed when they help needy ones.
@kyleuy (270)
28 Mar 10
Yes, that is so correct. everyone here on earth should feel that they are important not useless because the truth is we are all important in the eyes of God. We are his creation and he loves us all.
• United States
26 Mar 10
I enjoy not only the good feeling it gives me helping others, but also the feeling it gives them so they don't have to feel like they do not matter, or they are a burden. Not one should ever have to feel that way when they are trying to be productive and having trouble with it.
• Japan
26 Mar 10
i love to help i don`t care where and to who anything i can do to make people happy or to help them i will...some time i help too much then they thing something else like i want something by helping.some time i help a lot to some one but they make me up sad and turn me down,some time i help a lot but never heard the word thank you,is no matter for me about food sometime i gave thing to people a lot and i realize i am the one nothing to eat but yes any way i feel really good if can helping people around me who need help even whjen they don`t need any help i still willing to help:)
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@kyleuy (270)
26 Mar 10
that is very nice of you anitarei321, only a few people now on earth who thinks and acts the way you do about helping other people. its good to know that there are still people like you who are always willing to help others. keep up the good work.. God Bless you!
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• Philippines
26 Mar 10
It truly feels good to help others especially those who are less fortunate. I had two incidents when I helped other people at the same area. On the side of the road, there was a baby and her mother lying on a cardboard box. I went to a nearby bakery. I bought some bread and water and gave it to them. There was also another time on the same vicinity where there was a different mother and child sitting and on the other side, an old lady. My mom and I were going to the grocery that time so I bought some food, water, and a small tetra pack of milk for the baby. When we got back, I gave them the food and drinks. It feels happy to help them and it feels more happier to see their smiles. I hope I become a millionaire someday so I can support some charities and sponsor a child until college from our country. I hope sometimes that the very wealthy would share their part. I'm glad to see some rich people do their part.
@kyleuy (270)
29 Mar 10
you're right, I hope those people who are wealthy and filthy rich would just share some of their blessing to the charities to help out the poor people or less fortunate ones.. Their money is more than enough to support their family anyway, some our just too greedy hope they realize that there is more use to their money than just spending it on some non sense things.
• Philippines
26 Mar 10
if we do it voluntarily then of course its so nice to feel that way thinking you were able to help nor share your blessings to other people. besides we are quite lucky to have a good life than them. i also did that by giving my unused clothes to those who are affected by typhoon here where they dont have clothes to wear at all. at least by simple ways i can make them happy.
@kyleuy (270)
29 Mar 10
Yes, Of course there is a big difference in helping others voluntarily and against your will. It doesn't mean anything if you help others but it is against your will or just because you are being forced to. Helping should be voluntary and should come from the heart. :)
@anurag3786 (6267)
• India
26 Mar 10
Yes i feel good when i helped to a person who really need of help.. but i don't do this everyday.. because nobody ask everyday for help..but when i got chance to helped someone then i really helped them.. have a nice day and keep mylotting always..
@kyleuy (270)
28 Mar 10
yes, you have a point anurag3786. Keep helping other people and blessings will be given to you as well.. have a great day anurag3786 and enjoy life.. keep helping out others.. God bless you!
@RobtheRock (2433)
• United States
26 Mar 10
It feels great to be able to help someone else whether or not they are less fortunate. I've had people help me, for example when my motor was getting hot and this fellow (who could be my enemy politically) went to his car, got this huge container, and got water to quinch my car's thirst. I barely made it home (thirty miles away) that day. But I love the Long Ranger feeling when I've helped strangers and then took off for the sunset, because as another myLotter said, I feel blessed.
@kyleuy (270)
29 Mar 10
that feeling when you help others and made them happy is very great its as if you feel light and don't have problems at all. how I wish everyone would just help each other from now on.
• India
26 Mar 10
ya!!i really feel good when i help people..but i would like to hare that,i have faced both the things,good and bad!!once i paid my food bill for the other person,me eating less,then found that he got his food twice!!on the other side,some body really needed,my advice and i have helped!!!it actually makes you to think a lot before helping,,and to queue up the person in need
@kyleuy (270)
29 Mar 10
well its not your conscience anymore its the conscience of the person that you helped already. the bottom line is that you helped a person and that is already a good thing for you.
@setsuna26 (2751)
• Philippines
26 Mar 10
Absolutely! when your able to help someone your goin to feel good!Actually even if that person dont appreciate your help it still feels good inside to help that is. I believe all people are created kind its just that some dont know how to show it ;)
@kyleuy (270)
29 Mar 10
Yes that is so true.. Everyone has kindness deep inside of them but others are just being forced to do bad things because of their standing in life or because of society as well. no one wants to live the hard way that's why everyone will do anything just to live the good life. sometimes people are really being forced to do bad things even though they don't want to.