How long did take to fall in love with your partner?it was love at first sight?

@icesmile (7160)
Romania
March 26, 2010 2:33pm CST
You're at a party to a friend and you are heading nonchalantly towards the bar. At one point a guy is near you, offering to take your drink. Start a conversation when you introduce the idea suddenly strikes you that he is "The One". Is it possible? You can love someone irreparably by not know any of 5 minutes?. Psychologists believe that if you continue to interact with a person you love at first eye contact while you will look even more beautiful, smart and knows that that attractions like the easier route first. It is wise that if you are going to give it that this thing that you love at first sight and a second meeting. It's true that can take years until the two people to appreciate each other overall. But that love at first a love story can help to develop more easily than if delayed love.
9 responses
@caliya (1170)
• Philippines
6 Apr 10
I believe that love at first sight does happen to some people but for me attraction is different from love. If you initially like a person from the first time you laid eyes on him it could be just a mere physical attraction but once you get to know the person there's a chance that it is not love after all. There is a thin line between love and physical attraction.
@redphile (2264)
• Philippines
30 Mar 10
i believe in love at first sight because i myself experienced it. My partner and i lasted almost 7 years, unfortunately we just grew apart. I think anything is possible when it comes to love.
@neildc (17239)
• Lapu-Lapu City, Philippines
28 Mar 10
i can't remember getting in love in first meeting a girl. even with my wife, we lived together for years being i felt i already in love with her.
• United States
29 Mar 10
I had met my husband online. We met in person nine months later (December 2004) and got engaged a year and a half later (February 14th 2006) and got married a year and a half after that (August 2007). I love the way he proposed to me. He and his best friend Jeff (they both worked at a Country Radio Station) and his friend Jeff was on the air from 3-7PM. His best friend had told the story of how much this man loves this woman and that this man wants to spend the rest of his life with this woman. If this woman knows who this story is about I hope she says yes. The song that was played "When I Said I Do" by Clint Black and his wife Lisa Hartman Black. It took me a while to figure out that it was my boyfriend who was behind this. It was not until he pulled the car over and got down on one knee. I almost cried. Of course I said yes. We called back his friend Jeff so he could announce it on the air that we wer engaged.
• United States
30 Mar 10
I totally agree with you on this. Love at first sight does give a boost to the starting of a relationship. I had that with my boyfriend and we still talk about how we both fell for each other on the first glimpse. But before going towards a relationship we chose to be somewhat careful. I mean we had some chats in the college library and on aim to get to know each other more. In this we made sure to ask each other about our outlook on relationships and many other things. This really helped us learn that we were right for each other. It is a bit of a dangerous thing to just start a relationship without knowing a person. I have seen how this does not work at all. Technically, love at first sight is actually a lusty attraction since it has link to physical beauty. Real love happens when we get to appreciate the person's personality.
@rednet00 (15)
• Indonesia
29 Mar 10
There is no "love at the first sight". Its just a semantic way to say "passion on the first sight". passion and love definitely two different thing, that's my humble opinion. Thanks,
• Philippines
26 Mar 10
I don't believe in love at first sight. I don't think you can actually feel love when you have just seen that person. You might feel infatuated or attracted to him or her at first sight, but that's just about it, unless you be with that person for some time that you will know whether you really love him or her. That's my story. I didn't see a spark when I first met my fiancee. I didn't even find him attractive then. He was actually the opposite of what I pictured out in my mind as 'The One' for me. Time passed by, we got to know each other well enough and we soon realized that we love each other. After nearly six years, we're finally getting married in November this year. ^_^
• China
27 Mar 10
I admit the existence of "love at first sight", but it is not general. I believe love is formed by a long time contact so that we can understand each other quite well to make sure whether the other person is suitable to us or not. This kind of love may be stronger.
• United States
27 Mar 10
I met my fiancee at a party. This guy that came with my and my friend to the party was being a jerk to me so I locked myself in the bathroom. When I opened it, there was my fiancee. Of course we didn't know each other then and just met, but he gave me a hug and we started talking the whole night. We decided to date and see where it would take us. We were dating for 2 weeks and that's when we started saying I love you to each other. Today, we have been together for almost 4 years and been engaged for 3years. Its amazing how people meet and end up staying together after so many years!