How do you face the problem?

India
March 26, 2010 11:29pm CST
Hai friends I have some problem in my life going on every person daily gets a problem. But how do you face the problem with a cry on face or something like confidence in your mind. Tell me how to face the problem and help me out.
2 responses
@klaudyou (501)
27 Mar 10
As you didn't tell us what your problem is or what it's about, you will not find a very specific answer here. But usually the best advice is to try to solve it yourself if you can. Try to detach a little bit and think of a solution that will ensure satisfsaction both to you and to the others, if there's someone else involved. The general strategy is to find the "root" cause of the problem, not only the immediate cause that comes out when you ask "why", but the one that comes up after you ask "why" several times...say 5. If you identify the root cause, then try to eliminate it. If you only try to correct the effects of the problem, it does not guarantee the problem will not appear again. That's why you need to know the "root" cause. Once you have found it, try to think of a way to fight it efficiently (to get the maximum satisfaction in the least time and with the least effort). It may take a while to solve the problem this way, but the effect will be not only that you corrected it, but you can ensure it won't happen again... not from that cause you identified as "root" anyway... Just remember the 3 steps: - correct effects immediately (detach) - find "root" cause (ask "why?" several times) - eliminate "root" cause for good (act efficiently)
• United States
27 Mar 10
I usually try to walk around like nothing is wrong and try to figure out the problem in my head. I may even show the emotion on my face for a little while, but I'm working on telling myself that everything will be okay. Keep your chin up, pratheep87. Everything always tends to work out one way or another and it will be alright.