Are You Friendly?
@frontvisions101 (16043)
Philippines
March 27, 2010 6:17am CST
--1.some people are truly friendly in nature. i know fo sho im nothin like that. --2.some people wanna be friends with you to share your wealth, knowledge, capabilities,etc. sometimes im like this and they re always surprised when im returning the favor. --3.some people absolutely pretends to be friends to share your wealth, knowledge, capabilities, etc then disappears after they ve taken what they wanted all along. i know im not like this and i hate people like this. im not that friendly in the first place. how bout you? are you friendly? which of these 3 personalities do you highlight the most?
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@Wizzywig (7847)
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27 Mar 10
I tend to be quite friendly in terms of talking to pretty much anyone because I just like people. However, i dont share all the details of my life with casual aquaintances. I have no ulterior motive when being friendly. I really dont want anything from anyone, other than to be treated with the respect that I offer to them. I think you are right that there are people who want to be your friend for what they can get from you. Some people pretend to be friendly but are just using that closeness to find out your weaknesses or to talk about you behing your back.
@frontvisions101 (16043)
• Philippines
27 Mar 10
yes you are correct. i left that one out. people like to talk about other people s weaknesses in order to feel good about themselves and that s quite wrong. for me it s stepping on someone in order to get ahead.
@Wizzywig (7847)
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27 Mar 10
Maybe so... maybe you have known nicer people than we have
. I reveal on a "need to know" basis and I try to assess WHY people want to know certain things. Sometimes its genuine concern, other times it blatantly isnt. I dont see that as "secrets", just as my own personal business. I know there are people who are prepared to share intimate details of their lives with anyone who will listen & that's their choice. I am usually friendly to people & see the good in them unless/until proved wrong.
. I reveal on a "need to know" basis and I try to assess WHY people want to know certain things. Sometimes its genuine concern, other times it blatantly isnt. I dont see that as "secrets", just as my own personal business. I know there are people who are prepared to share intimate details of their lives with anyone who will listen & that's their choice. I am usually friendly to people & see the good in them unless/until proved wrong.@frontvisions101 (16043)
• Philippines
27 Mar 10
..and there are people like that. wizzywig, that s what we call Epal here in my country. dont be bothered by those type of people. it s not worth it.
@hexeduser22 (7418)
• Philippines
4 Apr 10
I hate friends, I'm your mortal enemy! I'm a dull person, nobody likes me. I'm the fourth personality
You are a good friend because you could have graduated earlier but still you took some time off just to wait for me

You are a good friend because you could have graduated earlier but still you took some time off just to wait for me


@frontvisions101 (16043)
• Philippines
4 Apr 10
hahaha! mind your biz! I'm not waiting for you. I should've graduated but the thin dude who you know so well has influenced me greatly.
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@frontvisions101 (16043)
• Philippines
28 Mar 10
so you would pretty much prefer to have few trusting friends than many that is hard to keep in touch with. im also like that.

@maryantilok (487)
• Singapore
2 Apr 10
i do not know i am a friendly person or not but if my friend or someone need help i will be right away help them if i can and thinking that if i help them this time and later if i need help they will help me .
@frontvisions101 (16043)
• Philippines
2 Apr 10
Are you saying you expect people to help you back thats why youre helping them?
@sweetloveforeve (13116)
• Portugal
4 Nov 10
i always like to smile to everyone^^ even to people i dont know
im a bit crazy i know^^ i always am friendly with people^^ but im not the type that just goes and talk much with strangers^^ im shy ahah^^ but if someone comes close to me and ask me anything or something i always talk sweet :) i love to be good to others^^ me too i dont like those people that take advantage of others. those are not true friends but only people that want something. im happy that you are not like that^^ is ok if you are not all friendly at first bcs you dont know them but im happy that you are a true friend when someone is good to you^^ 
im a bit crazy i know^^ i always am friendly with people^^ but im not the type that just goes and talk much with strangers^^ im shy ahah^^ but if someone comes close to me and ask me anything or something i always talk sweet :) i love to be good to others^^ me too i dont like those people that take advantage of others. those are not true friends but only people that want something. im happy that you are not like that^^ is ok if you are not all friendly at first bcs you dont know them but im happy that you are a true friend when someone is good to you^^ 
@frontvisions101 (16043)
• Philippines
7 Nov 10
Your aura spreads all over your response and all over mylot so i can tell. You are friendly. :) i like your personality.
@infatuatedbby (94909)
• United States
7 Nov 10
I am friendly in person and I am kind however if you push my buttons and take advantage of me and the friendship then I will be a total b**ch. I don't let alone step all over me and take advantage of me!
@frontvisions101 (16043)
• Philippines
7 Nov 10
Are kidding me? No one would want to take advantage of you.
@chiyosan (30186)
• Philippines
28 Mar 10
for people who could have been pretending to be friends with someone, i think i shall say that person who pretends is really really good in doing so. that is really hard to do. pretend that you are friends with someone. for me, I won't be able to do this, because if i dont like a person, i will certainly show signs of being irritated by just seeing this person.. i get annoyed easily and if something ticks me off, that would be persons who try to be friend me and would say quite a lot of awful stuffs behind my back.
@frontvisions101 (16043)
• Philippines
28 Mar 10
yes there are many people who s just like that. whenever you turn your back they take off theyre mask and stab you at the back. one of many reasons why im not that friendly of a person.
@jewelenterprises (1996)
• Australia
28 Mar 10
I'm a very friendly person and there is nothing I wouldn't do for my friends (assuming what they needed was in my power).
Friendship should always be a two way street but one where there are no expectations on either side. We should offer our support and caring because that is what we want to do not so that we can get the same thing in return.
@frontvisions101 (16043)
• Philippines
28 Mar 10
That is right. and we should be thankful if ever we have helping hands around us. thanks for the response.
@pratheep87 (1227)
• India
28 Mar 10
I am friendly to known person and to my friends only. I wont be friendly to strangers and will be stranger to them. But with some unknown kids i will be friendly and also with some old people i will be friendly
@frontvisions101 (16043)
• Philippines
28 Mar 10
yes. do not be friendly to those that are unfriendly. happy mylotting!
@frontvisions101 (16043)
• Philippines
28 Mar 10
Practically, yes. if you re friendly in nature but the other doesnt wanna be friends then nothing s gonna happen.
@Hazelrose (2179)
• Philippines
27 Mar 10
Hi frontvisions101,Yes,I am,My friends can testify you with that.I love my friends and never to take advantage with them,because i really cares for them.Good luck.
@frontvisions101 (16043)
• Philippines
27 Mar 10
well this is just nice to read first. so how friendly exactly are you?
@sheen13 (567)
• India
28 Mar 10
Maybe I am a bit like the 1 personality who mentioned above. I am really friendly with my close friends and help them out in every diffficulty of life. We hang out everywhere together. But yea sometimes if my mood sin't good, I get really angry on the others, who aren't my friends. But other than this, I never get angry with friends, whatever the reason is. And the persons who become friends just to share someone's wealth and stuff, I really really hate them. And I would never ever like to have such a type of friend. And I really thank God, that he hasn't given me such a friend. I have really nice friends.
@frontvisions101 (16043)
• Philippines
28 Mar 10
Great. i hate them too. they re like leeches who sucks the blood right out of you..
@cloud31 (5808)
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27 Mar 10
I don't overlook and under estimate people for what and who they are, I just want to build friendship to everybody as long they will do no harm on me,I always consider people feelings before doing any moves, that could harm friendship, and lastly I put other feelings first before considering my own feelings,being fair to everybody and avoiding myself to step on others right, so i believe
i'm friendly!
i'm friendly!@frontvisions101 (16043)
• Philippines
27 Mar 10
Thanks for the response. i really appreciate it because everyone seems to be sharing a lot here and it seems everyone has a good grasp of what friendship s meaning really is for them and what they really mean to their friends and it s nice to know people who put other s feelings first before their s no such thing and it s been great so far cuz im learning so much about you guys. happy mylotting!
@setsuna26 (2748)
• Philippines
27 Mar 10
Im the type of person whose really friendly period! I just like talking to people in return making friends with them. But the thing bout me is that i easily lose my trust, once you lose it its hard for me to trust you anymore.Its more like when you hurt me it takes time to heal ;)
@frontvisions101 (16043)
• Philippines
27 Mar 10
That is true. you get too much hatred to the person who have done you wrong. unfortunately, deciet is something we cant avoid so we must learn how to deal with it.














