people who wanna discuss their problems

March 29, 2010 6:02am CST
i have often come across people who always wanna dicuss their problems but giving them advise is totally useless! its like they enjoy their misery
5 responses
@ramp123 (191)
• India
1 Apr 10
How true! They want to discuss their problems, that means they want to gripe about their problems to you, but they don't want to listen to your advice. To such people, my advice would be to gripe to a blank wall, it will listen and not answer, you can vent your feelings and feel better. Why ruin someone else's happiness?
• India
29 Mar 10
Hi, I agree with your first part. We usually come across so many people who are wants to discuss their problem. But I guess they do not expect any solution or advice from the listener they just want to tell about their problem someone or other so that. Believe it or not they feel very much relieved once they discuss their problem. I agree that there are people who just want to tell their problems others about their problem because they just want some sympathy or maybe respect. Because sometime some people believe that Someone who faces more problem deserves more respect. Again it depends on ones perception. So nest course while handling such people is just to listen. Again this is my perception. Thanks for bringing such a nice topic.
@megamatt (14314)
• United States
29 Mar 10
I think there are just some people who enjoy the sound of their own voice. They just keep talking about whatever, mostly problems that are bothering them. It would be useless to give them advice, as the chances of them taking it are rather slim to none. I mean, they just enjoy talking and could care less about helping themselves. It can be rather frustrating. In some ways, they may in fact enjoy their misery. I agree one hundred percent about this fact. Therefore, I try and make excuses to get away from these people as soon as possible. Because if you give them an inch, they will take a foot and keep you around, to hear about their problems in detail. I can think of many things I would rather bad doing them, many of them involving inflicting great body harm upon myself.
@Joy525 (10)
• China
29 Mar 10
Hello. Maybe these people just want to know what do others think.Sometimes when they meet something unhappy, discuss to friends may let them feel better.It's depends on what do you think about this way to express. :)
• Philippines
29 Mar 10
you are right there my friend. these type of person annoys me whenever they get to talk with me and won't leave you. they just don't get the message that you are busy and got lots of things to do other than listening to their miseries all day long.