I hear about no-strings relationship

India
March 29, 2010 11:09pm CST
I am wondering about this no string affair, where both are not committed to each other they just want to have some fun, i find the idea pretty weird and i am not for it, what kind of satisfaction do they get out of this, are we not humans who need love and care and attention is it just a materialistic world where feelings dont matter
3 responses
@preppy (28)
• United Arab Emirates
14 Jul 10
i agree with you as human being we are always in need of attention, love and care... having a no string attached affairs is like a person who is allowing herself not to be respected by the person who you had an affair with.. even though a person is satisfied physically but at the end of it still guilt feelings is there..
• Philippines
30 Mar 10
that's the most ridiculous and most annoying thing i've ever heard of. it's like having just an affair with someone but no commitment at all. when i first heard about this no-string relationship from my sister i went mad at her. how could a girl let the guy treat her that way. i think this kind of relationship is very much beneficial to guys because they can flirt all they want without having to consider his girlfriend's feelings. because he knows there's no commitment between them at all. and i hate guys for that! ~ anyway heppy mylotting!
• United States
30 Mar 10
Good question! It is usually seen that no string affairs do not end up well. No matter how much the agreement is layed down about the fact that the two people will not be in a serious relationship, but will continue to share a bed emotional attachment ends up coming in between. But it is usually not mutual. If the man gets a new girlfriend for himself the girl will feel cheated. Same goes for the man. I have heard of many stories where these men had such affairs. They also told me that they made it clear to the women that there would not be anything serious in it. But when these women ended up finding someone new, these men called them cheaters. Technically, it is not really cheating. I was tired of listening to one of my date' dad story where he had a woman like that. But she then went back to her ex. It hurt him a lot and when he was talking to me about it he was using swear words for her. But then when I told him that he actually had no right to say all this against her since he was the one who wanted their affair to be like that he got struck by the fact that what he did was not only wrong, but also unhealthy. So I will say this kind of affair does not lead to a happy ending. It is full of thorns.