when is the right time to get laid with your boyfriend?

@mitchann (303)
Philippines
March 30, 2010 8:01am CST
Hi my lotters! In your own opinion when is the right time to be really really intimate with your partner?like after years of relationship, or months after you are steady? thanks for sharing.
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@mr_pearl (5018)
• India
30 Mar 10
It is not conditional, Miss... You can have it whenever you feel comfortable with it. Seems as if, you have formed conditions in your mind: either after years or after some months!! Why? Why don't you ask yourself what you want? Are you comfortable to take a step forward? Is he going to like it? As long as both of your are OKAY with it, I don't see any problem in making love at any point of time.. Have a great time!!!
@mitchann (303)
• Philippines
7 Apr 10
thanks mr pearl I have this formed condition in my mind because I dont actually want to rush things. I want it that it should take more months, I want to know him better.
@mr_pearl (5018)
• India
7 Apr 10
Well.. Then you have all the time to know him. Look, my answer was only to your question, which asked for the right time. And I repeat my answer: 'As long as both of you are OKAY with it, I don't see any problem in making love at any point of time'. Thanks for responding. Have a great time!!!
@p3ks626 (6538)
• Philippines
30 Mar 10
It should be after you got married. I think its decent and more appropriate to do that when you are doing it not because you just wanted to but because can do it because you are already husband and wife. I always think that people are losing their values that they tend to misunderstand things by saying that its okay to have an intimate relationship if two people are in love. I think this is very wrong and that kind of mind set should be changed.
@mitchann (303)
• Philippines
7 Apr 10
I liked your view though. ITs just that your opinion doesnt apply anymore to many people around the world. Thanks for sharing.
@syankee525 (6261)
• United States
30 Mar 10
well it depend. if you are under the age of 18 there is a never a good time. lol. if you are older follow your heart. and have him remember this. if he is going to tap it, he need to wrap it.
@mitchann (303)
• Philippines
7 Apr 10
Hi syankee thanks for sharing your point, if he is going to wrap it, he need to wrap it. I'll remember that in the future I could use your piece of advice. Thanks
@redphile (2264)
• Philippines
30 Mar 10
when you feel that you are both ready and prepared for the consequences. When both of you agree and will be willing to accept whatever the result of your actions.
@mitchann (303)
• Philippines
7 Apr 10
Every action requires responsibility. And every action may have consequences. Im really afraid of the consequences, to be honest. I was really thinking about it when I was reading all your responses. Thanks redphile
• Philippines
30 Mar 10
It's up for both sides if they willing to give in.But you should know about the consequences after that. It's getting into the next level. So be prepared. You'll never know what's gonna happen in the long run. Getting into it, only the spice of any relationship, just think about it.
@mitchann (303)
• Philippines
7 Apr 10
Thank you majure! I think Im not so ready about it, including my partner. MAybe it was just because of the sudden rush of feelings I guess.LOL.
@setsuna26 (2751)
• Philippines
30 Mar 10
In our country philippines we still believe in our old tradition that girls only give up their purity after marriage, although nowadays it is slowly being neglected , maybe because as time pass by people are changing too and so their beliefs and their ways as well. Now if you ask me i think whether you do it or not its all up to you.If you think you love your boyfriend that much and you think he feels the same for you then go, but just remember the responsibility that is connected to what you want to do.If your old enough you should know what is right and wrong for you.
@mitchann (303)
• Philippines
7 Apr 10
I agree with you setsuna that indeed times are really changing. ANd indeed people's views are changing.Thanks though for sharing CAtholic point of view.
• Malaysia
30 Mar 10
when both of you are ready and prepared of it...its hard to tell when by counting the years. Both of you have to know whether the feeling is right or not. If you are thinking wat i am thinking..Dont Do it,,
@mitchann (303)
• Philippines
7 Apr 10
Yeah, I also though about it too. MAybe we are not just prepared for it yet. thanks eddiechoohn.