eating too much will do the relationship break-up...
By fianne
@fianne (1057)
United States
March 30, 2010 3:46pm CST
i planned to surprise my friend at her house so i vistied her this morning in their house and i was in a bad timing. she and her husband were like arguing about eating and growing some weight. my friend is 5'4 tall and like 110 lbs.
i overheard the husband shouting, "if you get fat or added some wight i will break up with you! got that?" then my friend said, " ok then i am not going to eat tonight!"
then i thought of just leaving by then because it's really just a bad timing.
would you beak up with your partner if she or he got bigger or fatter? i think if you really love him or her, whatever she or he looks like, you can accept her the way it is. physique will not be a big problem in love.
2 responses
@marguicha (215852)
• Chile
31 Mar 10
I think that fight was not over a few pounds. The worst is that it meant an inadecuate relationship. If a spouse thinks that the other is having health problems (weight or another) he/she should approach it with love and tenderness. You don´t marry a person for what he or she weighs. You are not buying a piece of meat.
What you tell is not only lack of love but also lack of respect and I would not tolerate. I would call it abuse by all means.
What you tell is not only lack of love but also lack of respect and I would not tolerate. I would call it abuse by all means.
@fianne (1057)
• United States
31 Mar 10
yes, that's ight maguicha... i totally agree with you. it was really surprising and i was shocked by what i heard. i am still waiting for my friend to tell me about it but she hasn't called yet. i don't know, hopefully things are doing well with her. i will might jut call her later too.
@besthope44 (12123)
• India
11 Apr 10
Well said! True love cannot go for looks and accept what she/he are. My case i am so tall and my wife is short and lean. I strictly tell her to eat well with means of health conscious as she strains more at work and skips her meals. But my concern on her eating is love and no words of break up.
