Is marriage a soultion to pregnancy out of wedlock?

I totally agree with you. I don't think that marriage is the solution. I think they should focus more on the baby, then think about getting married, if they really want to after the baby is born. Getting married should only be done because of love, and not because the girl happens to be pregnant.

personally I dont think marriage is a solution to pregnancy, unless they are really really sure they want to get married. it could possibly create more problems in the future. so no for me.

I definitely don't think that marriage is always a solution just because you get pregnant. I was sixteen when I got pregnant with my now four year old daughter, and her father only sees her once a year or when there's a health emergency and she is hospitalized (which happens quite a bit because she has health problems). My grandparents tried to say that we should have gotten married because it was the "acceptable" thing to do in their minds, but in my opinion we were way too young for that as well. I think it just depends on the situation, because I'm now pregnant with my second child with my long-time boyfriend, and we do plan on getting married someday, just not right now.