Over and over again....

By dee
@yresh12 (3210)
Philippines
April 3, 2010 11:18am CST
I know most of us have problems and we tend to have friends that listen to us. We all need someone who understands that we need someone to listen to our problems and complains in life... Have you ever met someone who talks about the same thing over and over and over again. It's like talking about the same topic every time. You tell that person to just understand and be patient but still rants the same thing. I have that friend and I get tired sometimes. I just can't believe that she repeated me to it, WORD for WORD. You will surely be amazed. I know that she just can't let it out, I'm only human and I get tired. At the end of the day she still is my friend and will always be.. Have you encountered this type of people?
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6 responses
@SomeCowgirl (32189)
• United States
4 Apr 10
I can be this type of person. I think I was worse a few years ago, I'd repeat myself, especially if I was angry. Okay I still repeat myself now when I am angry, but for the depression etc part I tend not to repeat myself as bad I once did I think.
@SomeCowgirl (32189)
• United States
4 Apr 10
I definitely try not to be angry, it's kind of silly to be angry sometimes, ya know?
@yresh12 (3210)
• Philippines
5 Apr 10
Yeah it is... We look silly and crazy that's what my sister tells me when I am angry.... btw, did not log.in to moez today coz' I'll be logging out soon. My fathers gonna play zombie's hekhke.. I'm just gonna sleep so that I can do this in the aftiee... take care scg! *Kiss on cheek and big hug*
@yresh12 (3210)
• Philippines
4 Apr 10
Hi scg... I think we all do that but there are some who do it to the extremes... hekhek I know you don't usually get angry and you don't do it often...
@dawnald (85137)
• Shingle Springs, California
5 Apr 10
Some days, I think that is me. I just hope everybody isn't sick of me...
@yresh12 (3210)
• Philippines
6 Apr 10
Hey dawn! Love your pic.. YOu look very beautiful.. Am not sick of you definitely...
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@dawnald (85137)
• Shingle Springs, California
6 Apr 10
@jezzmay (1845)
• United States
6 Apr 10
Yes, I have people around me like this. I get very tired to, I try to let her know this is not doing her any good. That if she would just let it go, she would be better off, and a lot happier. When we dwell on something it will over take us whether it be good or bad.
@yresh12 (3210)
• Philippines
6 Apr 10
Yeah. Dwelling on something could be very unproductive for all of us.. We won't be able to communicate effectively....
@TheAdvocate (2392)
• Philippines
4 Apr 10
Yes, I have several friends like that! It's like they are not even listening to themselves. I just let them rant and rave all they like and tune out of the conversation. They probably just want to talk the problem to boredom so that it will just quit.
@yresh12 (3210)
• Philippines
4 Apr 10
I see. I'm getting used to it.. I know that they are just having problems that's why they are like that...
@hexeduser22 (7418)
• Philippines
7 Apr 10
I'm pretty sure I have a friend like this. Whenever he tells me the same story over and over again I tell him the same peace of advice I always tell him and ask him in the end when will he take my advice and start changing his life
@yresh12 (3210)
• Philippines
7 Apr 10
I see..Well there actually the type who just can't help but talk about it over and over...
• Philippines
3 Apr 10
I have a friend like this. Talks about the same thing over and over. You want her to stop but if you interrupt her it'll get worse. What i often do is i just nod my head as if i'm listening. She tends to get tired after some time. Lol.
@yresh12 (3210)
• Philippines
3 Apr 10
LOL..Nice idea but I think you should tell your friend about it.So, that she could be aware of what she's doing.