When do you call someone a hater?

@drshav (205)
Philippines
April 3, 2010 7:39pm CST
There are lots of different people we encounter and meet in our lives. There are some people who you can call your friend and some will be your enemy. Eventhough your not doing anything wrong to them they will still hate you and say something bad against you. Some will smile at you but when they turn around they will say something against you back. Will you call someone a hater if they always find fault of what your doing? If they judge you right away? If they always want to see you down? I wonder if they're doing that because they have a miserable life and they dont want to see other people happy.
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@picjim (3002)
• India
4 Apr 10
I'd classify someone who has ill will against you for no reason a hater.Similarly a person who backbites against you is also in the category of a hater.I can't comprehend why people hate the other without a logical reason.Perhaps it shows some flaws in their nature.Maybe as you sat their past and present lives are miserable and their character is bent towards making others miserable.As far as true friends go i feel there is nothing to equal them other than close family members.
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@drshav (205)
• Philippines
4 Apr 10
I guess they really have miserable life. They are selfish and they always think they are always right in everything and anything they do.
@mjcookie (2271)
• Philippines
4 Apr 10
It threatens their attitude because they're insecure.
@drshav (205)
• Philippines
5 Apr 10
You are right i guess they really are insecure.
@mjcookie (2271)
• Philippines
4 Apr 10
I agree with you. When a person hates another even when he didn't do anything wrong, then that means he/she's full of hate, jealousy, and envy. The sad thing is that people who are good, nice, and gentle are also victims of hate. In this world, there will always be haters, no matter how righteous you are. You can never really please anybody. Why hate when you can LOVE? L.O.V.E.
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@mjcookie (2271)
• Philippines
5 Apr 10
Oops, sorry for that. I mean "everybody".
@drshav (205)
• Philippines
5 Apr 10
Very well said maybe they are like that coz no one love them that much. They hate people just for them to be noticed. Too bad for them.
@EvrWonder (3571)
• Canada
4 Apr 10
I find that such people who discredit others by way of their individual opinion are not spiritually centered. I am not one to care about what other people think. We are all entitled to our opinion and another's opinion about myself, be it good or bad does not have any bearing on how I conduct myself. I know in my heart who I am and that is really all that matters. I find that people who are not busy making a life for themselves, who are likely a lazy person are more or less the type that do waste time judging others and usually in a negative way. Personally, I do not befriend such people. I let them alone and hope the best for them, their soul. There are people who are just negative people, miserable in their own lives for whatever reason(s). Perhaps they need to get in tune with themselves and nature around them. Diet and lifestyle perhaps can be another contributing factor.
@jugsjugs (12967)
4 Apr 10
I think there are alot of people out there that like to see people misreble.Also i think that there are alot of people that like to be your friend when their other friends are not about.I also know there are people out there that like to be the back stabbers between friends aswell.To be honest people like this i try to avoid as it is soo much better when you have other friends that are true and tend not to want you only when they have no where or noone else about at the time.
@drshav (205)
• Philippines
4 Apr 10
i try avoid them too but sad to say i can still see and encounter them. its sad to say people like them exist. :(
@baifuwa (636)
• China
4 Apr 10
There are many people that they have different characters.It is bad that i can assortment them. But it is lucky that they who i met are very good and honest.And i am honest too.They can help and encourage me when i am in the plight.
@baifuwa (636)
• China
5 Apr 10
thanks ,maybe i will meet one in the next month.We should learn to appreciate other men . Learn others' merit.
@drshav (205)
• Philippines
5 Apr 10
Thats good for you. I hope you meet one in the future. Its kinda hard dealing with those kind of people and i can say they can give you some stress. If only they will learn how to appreciate other people.
@pcserver (392)
4 Apr 10
haha...the most typical person to call hater is Walter. Watch Jeff Dunham show - the doll Walter is just awesome and he is the real meaning of the word hater. I think it is a person who always disagrees and thinks he/she is always right for everything and himself/herself. And those people are always pessimistic about almost everything :) Have a nice myLotting
@voldrox (7191)
• India
4 Apr 10
Hi there, sadly there are some people like that, i don't know why they do it, do they think if they are not satisfied with their life then they should be all so miserable to other people as well? Hater is a pretty strong word, i can not apply that on any of the ones i know, i guess the work could be applicable to people who keep grudge, i don't know.
• Philippines
4 Apr 10
For me, a hater is someone who hates everything around them. They're the ones that whatever you do they will hate it. It.S not good to be a hater. It'll just shorten your lives by weakening your heart.