online dating! can be exciting....

Philippines
April 4, 2010 3:09am CST
Nowadays, internet is being used to many things even to dating. Mostly are youngster are playing and chatting with their playmates virtually. But mostly and some of young woman found their first boyfriend on chat, it is rare but it is now rampant. Everybody chats and most of them found their love of their life on online dating. Mine have a story to tell. It really strange but its wonderful, on the other side it is exciting and surprising too. I had signed up on one of the dating site. I never mean to really look for a man to love me or whatsoever reason for me to just be very happy up to this time. He interest me and sent me mail that he liked me and told me that I'm good looking. Well, as most woman fell, i was flattered, but i was thinking how does he looks like since he never posted his photo on his profile. And so the adventure takes place, i talked with him online but still i don't see him, he described himself to me and told me he is fat, and old, for he told me he was 58 yrs old that time and i was 24. At the other side of believing him he is really what he told me i keep on thinking he is young and handsome man, the days past and the more time i spent talking with him, and also the more things he proved to me that he is always telling the truth, but i kept on neglecting of believing about his appearance since until the 28th day of talking/chatting with him i still don't saw him on the camera, but it was too late to back out from what i committed of seeing him the next day that would be the 30th day since we are chatting. We agreed that i will met him at the airport even that means i have to travel to reach him there, i gambled and i tried for the sake that he can be the one, he have showed himself nice and very kind and so generous. The time i have to leave to travel to see him he asked me to go online so at least he can show his face at last to the camera,.................., i saw him, yes i saw him, but it was mixed emotion when the moment i saw him. Because truly he was fat and gray old hair. That time i know he wanted me to decide whether to meet him or not. And also to be fair to me. It was too late for him to do that because i am already in love with him. For being so true to me and for taking care of me. I met last July 11, 2008 and i found myself loving him until i think forever, it is true he is over weight and over age but he loves me and i love him very much. And now we are engaged. Does anyone have similar story? Is it bad to love old fat man?
5 responses
@saphrina (31733)
• South Africa
4 Apr 10
Love really doesn't care how old you are. Neither does it care how you really look. The most important thing is the mutual deepseated love you have for each other. Anyone is compatible to anyone. I am happy that you have found your love. Always treasure it, because that is very rare. TATA.
@basqui (3890)
• Philippines
4 Apr 10
saphrina, Remember my discussion about online relationships? This is one proof that it really happens! Some responders there even said it is impossible to have one.
@saphrina (31733)
• South Africa
5 Apr 10
It can happen. But you will never know if it is for real. To trust someone you have never seen or met, can make life difficult. TATA.
• Philippines
5 Apr 10
u got a point saph, but u just can't risk everything. i don't just use my heart all the time i also use my head. but at last still heart weight more than mind. anyway i never knew it was for real at first time. but we still make it.
@basqui (3890)
• Philippines
4 Apr 10
I started a discussion days ago about how relationships on the web really exist and that adults get to meet those ones they had relationship with online. Some get lucky and some not. Well, if it's really love that you have with your partner then you are lucky. And to think that you really love him however his appearance is a good thing for both of you. Are you staying together now? It's 2010 already and you said you met 2008?
• Philippines
5 Apr 10
thank you for reading! hmm... we are not yet together but we are on the progress of making that happen, we are engaged and i must say we are emotionally attached to each other. we are planning to get married, and we are setting all the things to make it happen. for now what is important is that i love him and he loves me...
@basqui (3890)
• Philippines
6 Apr 10
Well, good luck on your relationship. It's not the age that matters really. As long as you two are in love and understand each other.
• Philippines
4 Apr 10
I'm totally entertained reading your story. Congratulations for finding a good fat man. How lucky you are to have won an honest guy. May you have a happy relationship. Best wishes
• Philippines
4 Apr 10
thank you for reading and for the wishes... God bless you
• Philippines
4 Apr 10
No it's not bad to love an old fat guy. That would be judging by the looks. I admire what you've done here. You followed your heart. Good for you. Some people wouldn't have the courage to do that.
• Philippines
4 Apr 10
thank you... i heard of many things about what people say about me, but i dont mind, i enjoyed and enjoying what i have..
@1anurag1 (3580)
• India
4 Apr 10
yes online dating is very exciting there is no suspision in this. but again. there are suspicion in online dating. i have experienced here that people dont tell truth due to some security problems or even in some cases they dont want to tell the truth. so i dont think it is good to date with some one who are not interested in telling the reality and to date with some virtual person.