Do you listen to your gf or bf when your having a fight?

When i was still with my ex, i always listen but i always let her win the argument but still prove my point. It's just that i don't want her to get mad at me by winning the argument. I'd rather lose it than lose her.

no, when we are angry we cannot listen to any one whether he/she is your bf/gf, and it is a proven fact, enjoy, ....TATA

hi buccha, I am so sorry to hear that from you. I think, you and your gf must give a chance to speak especially when you are having some arguments. That way, your problem can be solved easily. Remember that love cannot grow if there is no humility from each other. I listen to my bf when we are having a fight. I not allow my emotion to engulf me when I am angry. It is because I love him that I don't want to let go of him. He also do same with me. Whenever he knows I am angry, he listens to me. And when I have no more to say then that is the time he speaks and explain things. Well, between me and my partner, he is more calm than me. I am always the one chatty and most of the time he listens.

This is one factor of break up that most young couples have to deal with while in the relationship, they do not give each other a chance to talk to clear things up. One must give way the other side to talk and after the explanation being done it will be your turn to share. How can you possibly patch things up when you don't listen to the causes of your rough relationship? In order for the relationship to survive you should listen one another. Allow your partner to talk while you are just listening for you to understand each other well.