Mylotters going ou of their way...

Canada
April 4, 2010 7:29pm CST
I made this dscussion and wasnt aware that another user had posted somethign similiar. There was this one mylotter who decide that the first comment on tis discussion would be to just inform me of this - without any other discussion to it. I find this a bit of a bother but no big deal, they are just trying to help or inform me. But then after the other mylotters responded this person decided to make note after each one that this discussion was not the first and that they shouldnt be commenting and that they should be looking at the other discussion instead. I find this rude and a waste of everyones time. I just dont understand why some users go out of tehir way to do this type of this. Have you ever done this? And I hope Im not offending anyone.
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11 responses
@kaylachan (4775)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
5 Apr 10
I have seen many discussions I won't deny it. But, quite frankly, I simply respond to them as politly as possible. there is no point in being rude. they are human. Those discussions that recieve those types of comments usually end up being deleted so are usually a waste of time.
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@sid556 (30989)
• United States
5 Apr 10
Hi Artsy, was it your discussion about not recieving e-mails? If so, don't worry. That was Ms.dianit referring everyone to read the post from "Go Ask Alice" on the same topic. Alice is part of administration and her explanation would have been the most accurate to answer your question as well as everyone that responded to you. She wasn't trying to send people to respond to the other discussion at all. She was providing a link to the discussion that would give you all some answers thats all. Have a great day.
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@mysdianait (65079)
• Italy
5 Apr 10
Thank you Sid! It is so easy for misunderstandings to happen on here and it seems that there was one here too.
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@Hatley (164231)
• Garden Grove, California
5 Apr 10
hi diana I feel really stupid as I responded to that too and should have known all these repitions would get deleted hence three notifications my responses went bye bye along with the discussion.I have only myself to blame as I should have known those three would be d eleted. live and learn.
@mysdianait (65079)
• Italy
5 Apr 10
We can make up for them quickly Hatley, so not to worry
• Philippines
5 Apr 10
I agree. I have experienced the same thing. my first commenter said something like this post will probably be erased. like some said, they probably have nothing else to do with their time. but when you think about it, their posts actually increase by telling us that our post would be erased. hmmm. oh well. whatever floats their boat.
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@mysdianait (65079)
• Italy
5 Apr 10
The first commentor, and admin Alice, tried to explain the reason why your discussion will be deleted. The fact that the responses increase because others waste their time informing you of something that you seem to be unaware of, does not increase your earnings at all and does nothing for theirs either because eventually it WILL be deleted. It is probably still there because admin Alice responded too. Often she leaves her responses up for a while so that others, if they have the time to read her, can understand what not to do too.
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• Philippines
5 Apr 10
Sometimes I felt disrespected by some responses I received. i felt annoyed and even angry. But then I realized that it is part of the discussion. We just have to ignore those responses that we do not like and appreciate good ones. Besides, we are doing our part to express ourselves and they are doing theirs. happy mylotting to us.
@Hatley (164231)
• Garden Grove, California
5 Apr 10
hi jhonnaroxas yes but still if someone really insults you mylot admins will not be put out if you report that person as we are in their'words all suppose to play nice. being insulted and angered'is not fun either, we are supposed to enjoy ourselves here.
@machivado (529)
• Indonesia
5 Apr 10
Everyone has their own minds..it's not a good thing to restrict someone because what he/she says is already there...Although of course, if the discussion has been written too much already, I guess it's a fair thing to do..but still, to simply state what is in your mind properly is not wrong.
@anurag3786 (6273)
• India
5 Apr 10
I think sometimes problems made in mylot.. but be patience.. problem solved after sometimes.. i think.. if there would be any problem here.. then soon it would be solved.. but you trying to do your works.. have a nice day and keep mylotting always...
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@kprofgames (3099)
• United States
5 Apr 10
Like discussions are started and it is hard not to start the same discussion. If you copy and paste it word for word then that is a problem, but if it has the same topic then this person is just being whatever.
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@mysdianait (65079)
• Italy
5 Apr 10
There is one myLotter who saw what admin Alice said yesterday about a certain problem that many are haiving and are posting about. Admin Alice said: "[i]Hopefully we'll get the broken things fixed very soon! We're very aware of the problems with the notifications not being sent and the ratings not sticking. Feel free to spread the word[/i]." source: http://www.mylot.com/w/discussions/2287989.aspx Having seen her say that, it is obvious that all the discussions regarding the same topic will be deleted, all earnings will be lost and therefore that is why the word should be spread. That mylotter who is spreading the word is also wasting their own time too
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• Dallas, Texas
5 Apr 10
I guess they have nothing else to do. Personally if I have a question - I do not search to see if it has already been asked. Maybe I should. But I would not trip about it. Wise people know what to ignore and apathy is worst than hate!
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@Hatley (164231)
• Garden Grove, California
5 Apr 10
hi artsyfartsygypsy You know that rude person made a big error as I believe that hits one of mylots rules about not asking people to respond' to his discussion so I think this person shot himself in the foot trying to mess you up. I think this user really had some gall as like I said I think you are not to ask others to respond to another discussion. no I have never done that nor would I thats just plain rude. you sure are not offending me. I think this person could end up getting his comments deleted if my lot admins really sees them. hope they do. he he. Also some people think that if for ex you make a discussion about how you feel teachers have it too easy being off in the summer and another makes a discussion on a teacher who helped him to succeed in life, now they are not at all alike, not similar at all but some think that. I think that is unfair too.
@mysdianait (65079)
• Italy
5 Apr 10
That rude person was told to do what they did See my response above and the discussion in question is this one: http://www.mylot.com/w/discussions/2289108.aspx There are many saying the same thing now
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@Hatley (164231)
• Garden Grove, California
5 Apr 10
hi diana I was right then was I not. yes got deletedl. That person' must have some serious personality issues to do something like that. I would never have done that, I have too much fun mylotting and getting on someon's case is not fun for me at all. there are many ways of saying something, you are so true, and always wise Diana.
@mysdianait (65079)
• Italy
5 Apr 10
Hatley unfortunately the discussion in question has now been deleted, just as all the others have too. It was me who was the rude person because I gave a link pointing to where admin Alice said that she was already aware of the problem that was in the topic of the discussion. It seems I can please some of the people all of the time and all of the people some of the time - but I plod on regardless
@qamarep (4448)
• Pakistan
5 Apr 10
no mylot is not going out of its way. these are the rules and you cannot make a copy post.