Lost guy friends after boyfriend.
@artsyfartsygypsy (755)
Canada
April 5, 2010 6:57pm CST
I have always had tons of guy friends - always more than my fmale friends. But once my current boyfriend came into the picture all my guy friends seemed to disapear, almost scatter. It worries me a little. Why would this happen.
Slowly but surely my friends are starting to come out of hiding. We'bve been dating for almost 2 and a half months. Can anyone give me some insight into this?
3 responses
@frontvisions101 (16043)
• Philippines
6 Apr 10
Maybe they just want to give you space. And besides, It's your boyfriend. He might get jealous if he sees you hanging around with a bunch of other guys.
@eddyspaghetti (1225)
• United States
6 Apr 10
The guy friends might want to be giving you space. Similarly, have you been trying to contact your guy friends? Often times in a relationship one gets too wrapped up in their significant other and start to incidentally neglect the friends they had before the relationship. If this is your case, just make sure you balance your bf with all your other commitments. One other theory is that maybe your guy friends actually liked you and now that you have a boyfriend they backed off. Good luck with your boy troubles! =)
@replyashu (745)
• India
6 Apr 10
this is human nature, every one wants to be your first friend and expect a lot of priorities, like whom you can consider first to share things when the are in need
so when you have your bf, then they all thought that he would take their place, so they are retreating, enjoy:)
TATA
