When is a good time to throw out the quest?
@xxazndragon01 (1250)
United States
April 6, 2010 5:53pm CST
Well as you may have read in other post i have been in love with my girlfriend for a long time its been 8 years since i met here and 4 years since we been going out and wanting to know if there is a certain time you guys suggest throwing out the marriage question cause i know for a fact i am ready to settle down with her and spend my life with her so please tell me what the best time is
1 response
@climber7565 (2566)
• United States
7 Apr 10
oh my goodness when is it the best time to throw that question? hmmm. What does your heart dictate? You have waited 8 years to ask? I tried that once, and topped off the 6 year mark, was told I had no intentions to ask since I had waited for so long. I thought I had done the right thing to wait for her to finish school. It back fired on me. I say you need to organize a romantic setting and make it a special date and make that day your special day, pick nature or some place really special for her, don't be questioning when its the right time. You have waited for 8 years wondering about it already? is way past the time.
@xxazndragon01 (1250)
• United States
7 Apr 10
well climber its been 8 years since i met her in middle school xD now we are in college but im not sure where i should propose to her
@climber7565 (2566)
• United States
7 Apr 10
I very happy for you and excited cause see I am contemplating proposing as well. Thank you for sharing this and allowing me to be part of your day at such delicate decision for your future life. If I may recommend, take in consideration what locations and scenarios you know feel special to both of you and mostly for your lady. She may not be happy with you if you go out of budget to do this but that will be that one time in life where you may not need to listen and just do. Maybe you find nature is romantic? complemented with a little of civilization to enhance the ambiance, an amazing dinner in nature with some soothing live music or the sounds of a water fall?
