do i have to say sorry even if its not my fault just to fix things out

I am concerned about your boyfriend feeling so jealous of you and it being a 3 year relationship. Living together would not change the jealousy. My daughter has a very jealous boyfriend and they have been together for over 10 years! They live together but part of the problem that they are not married is his jealousy. Does he ever trust you? You said you have done nothing so I don't see why you have to say that you are sorry.

If it's not your fault then don't ever sorry. If you know you are right and you have a clean conscience then fight for it. You have to prove to him that you have done nothing wrong to deserve his jealousy. If your relationship last for over three years then the trust element should have been sinking by now. But then your boyfriend does not trust you that much yet. I understand because since you only meet your boyfriend in the net he may be thinking that you are trying to find another guy or find another connection with anybody else because it will be an easy thing to do in the chatting world. As long that you two will not marry yet expect the jealousy to remain.

netcoder do not get too cozy with this unseen boyfriend on the net who has the audacity to be jealous because he thinks you are chatting with other guys. He is not married to you, has he been to see you in person, , you need not apologize to him, as his jealousy could be a danger sign that if he comes to see you he will try to control you, and prevent you from seeing anyone else male or female. One other poster here a few weeks ago got herself into so much t rouble with this guy who she had a relationship only thru the net, he came mto her town and began stalking her and harassing her and trying to force her to live with him while he was being a stalker. Her father had to put a stop to him stalking by getting a restraining order against him. she had met him and saw that she did not really love him, but he would not take no for an answer. so they were forced to go to the police. I would be very careful of someone you know only through the net as they just might not be what you thought they were. If it has been three years and he has not even come to see you how is that that you feel you need to apologize. if this jerk really cared all that much he would have made the extreme effort to come to you and meet you face to face.

What i do is, i say sorry just to end the argument but i prove my point. I don't care if i lose the argument as long as i prove that i'm right. In your case, you're the girl so, i dunno. From what i know, girls don't like to lose arguments. It's up to you.

I've been into the same situation as you. Yes, I still manage to say sorry even if I was not the one at fault and even if I did not do anything. I don;t want us to argue especially when the matter is cheating. I don' want him to feel jealous in any way. So whenever he is feeling such, I prefer to listen instead than argue and prove that I am not doing anything behind his back, I would say sorry if he feels that way and ask him what I can do to feel better. Yes, I definitely think say sorry just to fix things out to save us from arguing and to say things that are not meant or that we would regret in the end.