if you have to choose between your close one and career......

India
April 8, 2010 9:24pm CST
what would you do if you have to choose between your closed ones and between your career...... whom would you choose and state the reason for that too... as per i am concerned i will go with career first then will take care of closed ones once career is settled......:) enjoy mylotting
5 responses
@saphrina (31552)
• South Africa
9 Apr 10
Unfortunately, that is one thing you cannot choose between. Most have a career to support their loved ones. It will never be easy to choose between the two. TATA.
• India
10 Apr 10
yes, you are right in a sense
@unique16 (1531)
• United States
9 Apr 10
Hello replyashu, I would pick my close one over career. I am 44 and put career first and now I have no one really close to me. Most of the men I meet now do not want to get married and I still do. I was married when I was 21 and had two children but we were not combitable and he drank too much and his work ethics were not very good. I still long to have someone close to me and want to sleep over and we go for walks etc... I worked long hours and two jobs at times. Never much time for me and make relationships work. Thanks and have a great night Sincerely unique16
• India
9 Apr 10
but you can make up your closed ones when you have settled career, thats why i say make a suitable and settled career first then go for closed ones any way, every one has notions, thanxs for responding you can call me ashu, its my name rather than replyashu.......:)
• Philippines
9 Apr 10
it depends like if its life threatening situation against my career then of course i will chose my loved one. besides career is just there. but if i choose them just to make them happy then no thanks, they can have their own happiness as they have their own life and i have my own life too so i will choose my own happiness and if my career will make me happy then they supposed to support me all the way if they truly love me and want me to be happy if not then they are selfish enough to think only of themselves.
• China
9 Apr 10
It depends who is my close one. If it's my parents then they will be concern for my career and will suggest me to choose my career. As all parents want good careed for there child. If close one is some body else then i will choose my career. Because if i hold my career then i can also hold my close one but if i choose my close one only then i can not hold my career.
• Qatar
9 Apr 10
i will chose my close one and take them with me to get my career.