WAIT when I reached 30

Maybe he just became too excited to feel being loved and to love that's why he did those.

I think not its hard to get pregnant when you are 30s. You must get married before you reach it. Business will be around but the time you have kids at young age is good.

there's a guy i chat to ocassionaly online, he didn't listen to a word i said abotu me being already taken and as he's over 30 he wants to settle down. so he did ask me at one point when can we start dating? i was like i'm from australia and he's from the usa. plus i'm taken it was like listen. not spoken to him for a while. you'll meet the right person, no need to hurry. i'm nearly 29 and wanting to get rid of my partner, we're not married either which helps.

I'm also not serious about textmates and even chatmates. I've met a serious guy online that he wants to marry me and I'm very careful not the trust anyone I met online or in texting. I said to him I can't answer him because I don't know him personally and I'm not ready to get married until I reach the age of 30. We also need to be careful about meeting them in person because we never know if they are have bad or good intention.

haha... Courtship in texting would mean no sincerity at all, after with all the incidents right now, its pretty scary... I hope you guys will not fall by just being textmate... For me who's really not interested in textmate will not fall to it but to someone who's alone and lonely who knows what will happen.

Haha! it made me laugh .. Well guys do court in an instant. I have friends and cousins who do exactly the same thing! Don't over react to that, it would be nice if you go with the flow, but don't fall in love . Anyway, can i have your number? hehe!

hi gambamarcela do what your heart tells you to and do notlet us change your plans. Iknow I did not get married til I was thirty and it turned out just great, had two children and a great marriage.I say go ahead and work on your future business. you have lots of time.

good for you. relationship is not a matter than can be rushed. take it slow and make sure you get to know the person very well. but good for you that you will think about business first. relationship is easy but to establish a business is not. good luck to you on whatever venture you are going to do and may God bless you and give you strength and focus on this.

It is amusing to know that you have a text mate. Me...i tried before but I'm always been a lousy text mate and I don't court over on cellphones that is a stupid thing a guy can do. It means he is not really that serious. What I'm trying to say is that if he really want to court you then he must meet you first. I admire the way you let your principle rule over your heart. You are a wise person and continue to be that way. Much better to give your heart to someone you knew or meet in person, just not with stranger because sometimes they have excess baggage attached to themselves.

I don't think you deserve to be with a guy who would court you even though you haven't meet each other. Using a video cam is okay because, at the very least, you have the chance to witness his expressions ans all but with text, that's terrible. Just concentrate on your business instead... Good luck! Hope you'll earn big.

I think your over acting this one. A guy asking if your available does not mean anything. Its just words. Nothing more. Unless when you open your eyes in the morning and find flowers all over your room then that's the different story... Some also ask for your number but it does not mean they will call you. they just want to have a conversation or something to talk too. So, don't expect so much. I use that line all the time and it means nothing to me just a formal conversation. flowers for me is the first steps. Not words. If I ask you out and I don't bring any flowers then I'm just looking for a friend.

I think 30 is a little "old." But I do agree with your assumption that you cannot just entrust your heart to a random guy. You don't exactly know what's going on in our minds.