I hate that Woman ---- my aunt

Philippines
April 10, 2010 11:44am CST
i know it's not proper... I've been thought better than to hate people, especially if she is the wife of your father's brother, -- your aunt... She's tactless and she blabbers all the time. I didn't really like her even before, but i didn't hate her either. NOW, i really hate her.. just hearing her name pisses me off! Few months ago, when my father was dying in the ICU, (I couldn't get myself to start a discussion about it sooner...) we were all outside the room praying intently for a miracle, when she (aunt) suddenly appeared and with a loud voice said "IS HE DEAD YET?" how inconsiderate and unforgivable! If my father's alive now, I'm sure he would tell me not to pay any attention to her, but that was crossing the line! It was rude and inconsiderate of the situation! I hate her though she is my aunt! I do not like her at all!
2 responses
dee
@yresh12 (3210)
• Philippines
11 Apr 10
You have the right to be angry with your aunt. She was very rude to you. I think that she was very insensitive in saying so.. Have you talked to her about this and what did she say?
Auntiescarf
@Auntiescarf (842)
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10 Apr 10
That was very rude and tactless of her, Im sorry about your father, do you have to spend a lot of time with your aunt or can you avoid her as much as possible? I think avoidance may be the best thing to do with her, unless you think you could say to her that you didnt like what she said, I usually advise trying to clear the air but you have a better idea of whether it will be worth it with her, after what she said nobody would blame you for never speaking to her again.