Do you share your bestfriend with others?

Philippines
April 11, 2010 4:31am CST
I have three bestfriends as of this date. Before, I had no issue of letting my bestfriends make friends or have new bestfriends aside from me. In short, I really am open of sharing them to the world, to other people. With my recent bestfriend, I became a bit possessive which caused to our clash. I realized it was wrong of me to restrain my bestfriend from meeting other people and making friends or bestfriend or whatever. So now, I am really doing my best to let go of that negative feeling. I am telling myself that I don't own my bestfriend, and that no matter what, my bestfriend won't leave me just because of another people. How about you? Do you have the same story? Do you share your bestfriend with others?
3 responses
assinertata
@assinertata (288)
• Philippines
11 Apr 10
I share my best friend to others. No one owns nobody. We have our families, partners, best friends, friends, etc..but they are here to share life with us, not to possess one another. Everyone has his own life to live, and has his own right to explore life, discover new things and people, and whatever he wants to do. Making or having relationship to others doesn't give you the right to take their own rights for individualism. Instead of trying to possess her/him completely, let him/her grow and enjoy life freely with you.
unstopabble
@unstopabble (452)
• Philippines
11 Apr 10
my wife is my bestfriend.and of course i dont want her to share her with others. i love my wife so much that i could tell her all my feelings all that i wanted to say. and she always listen
acey76
@acey76 (1275)
• Philippines
11 Apr 10
i have also 2 best friends since elementary days......we share things together, and lifes challenges...though we agree that we cant be damanding at times coz we have different circle of friends from work, neighbors and i think that wont harm our friendship it will give us a different views in life ,for us to be mature and not to be independent to each other ..... but when we need each other we take time to meet every week to catch up for the lost times or to see that al is doing fine with each others life.....