How come the only thing people do is to condemn others?

that is human nature, to see the negative in a person first before the positives, even your post is negative, right? in psychology, if you are right on something, you will think that you are the only one who is right, but if you are wrong you will look for other people who has committed the same mistake so you will feel good about yourself. Example: you got a high grade, you will think that you are better you get a failing grade, you wlll say to yourself that other students failed the test too.

Nobody is perfect. Everybody commits mistakes. If I see a person who is on the path to self destruction I talk to him/her and advise him/her.

I am not like that at all if anything i try to help people and if then they do not try to do something to help themselves then i will give up trying.All my friends know that i am here if they need me no matter what, also no matter if i am busy i will try to do as much as i can to guide them or help them.I also help people that fall or hurt themselves in the street no matter who they are even if i do not like them i will try to do something to help them.

Hi, Well, I don't think all people behave that way. There are basically two reasons why a person criticize others. If one has a low self-esteem and has quite a low opinion about oneself, one usually breaks out into criticizing and humiliating others. This is, as they feel is one form of medication to elevate their position. You can get yourself higher, either by keeping others down, or by getting higher all by yourself. The former is the most easy and quick method, though temporary and harmful in long run. But, people with lack of patience and diligence usually don't prefer the latter. Now, there is this another reason, which is very weird though. I have observed that everyone of us is interested in being mentor, whereas nobody is actually ready to follow. This brings a crisis. If everybody speaks out, who will listen? People are loosing their humble, gentle and polite dispositions. They are quite aggressive in obtaining superiority by any means, and they want it fast. Finding faults of other is this short route. Either these people are terribly frustrated themselves or they are suffering a tremendous identity crisis. In both the cases they are quite unknowingly becoming unwanted by the rest of us. God bless you

Pretty much dependent on the type of person you mean... there are people who take pride and enjoys the destruction of others. But there are also who love to see friends grow.

Such kind of person is so disgusting and maybe insecure. I did say that, because as humane we though have reponsibilities to each other. If we see that someone committed mistakes we can help him/her to realized the wrong that she/he have done. We are not perfect and there are really people who are weak and so easy to commmit mistakes, and these people need someone to guide them so that they will be able to correct their mistakes and be strong enough not to commit wrong again. Indeed, we are humane, and for me I would be happy to help someone to lead her/him to the right path.

first of all, i take your 'we' as 'me not included' cuz i don't. whenever i see people treading the wrong path, i try my best to lead them, or the worst case scenario, drag them to the right path. i do what i can, that means everything under my power, to give people better choices. i believe that everyone has a choice, they just ignore it. i've been to the wrong path and it's euphoric but it's also misleading. i know how to get people out of there cuz i've been dragged out it too.

I think that we are naturally like that. Just be more conscious of what you say or do. It's not that we are letting them go to that path. It's the path they chose. We are not the masters of there life. We just guide and help them to be enlightened...

I don't think everybody does this, I certainly hope I don't. But the reaaon I think some people do this is just to simply make themselves appear better.