Is the fault we see in another also in us?

Possibility, I find that the faults I see in others, sepecially women is things they are going through in their lives that I have had to endure and don't any more and want them to not have to either. Though I try to keep my mouth shut on most of them, seems trying to tell them only makes it worse cause they can't see it. I would wonder if the faults we have we try to see the same in others that way it doesn't look as bad on us. I try not to judge others as to what faults they might have unless it interfers with my life or my family. Yes I do believe that if we treated others like we would like to be treated then it would take away a lot of things that is bad.

I think this is very true in some instances. Though I don't think it is always true. Personally, if I pick a fault in someone or something, it's because they're different to me, so I would say I wouldn't fit into this category. (but who am I to say!)

Yes, sometimes stuff that we want others to do simply means that we don't want to do it ourselves ,so we put pressure on others ,so that we can get away from doing stuff that we dislike. We blamed others for certain things that we probably would not do either.

I do believe this and it is a very hard thing to swallow. Choking is often the result. If we can follow the Golden rule, "Treat others as you would be treated" the whole wowrld would be a better place.