the past of every man affects their outlook in life

Philippines
April 15, 2010 8:42pm CST
Every individual has different outlook in life, and it has something to do with their past. I learned in my previous professor in Sociology that every individual has an ability to understand why every man is like this or like that. They should accept every individual no matter who they are and in return, they will accept you too. Because we'll never know what that man experience during his childhood years. Maybe the reason why we are sometimes judgmental because when we were just a child, we were treated like this. We cannot judge anybody if we really don't know who they are.
5 responses
@bird123 (10632)
• United States
17 Apr 10
It is our duty to interact,learn and teach each other regardless of the drama needed to accomplish this. We are not supposed to accept the problems. We are to solve the problems. Many times this takes all of us working together. We are all meant to become more than was taught to us as a child. We are meant to think on our own. Our interactions with others bring us the view we are often missing. Drama is the result of those who refused to learn or change. Drama isn't the important part. Sometimes it shouldn't be avoided. Sometimes, it's the only way to get learning and resolution.
@syankee525 (6261)
• United States
16 Apr 10
one thing i dont do is judge others, its not my place to judge anyone for what they are or what they belive. my thing is along they respect me its all good. or they dont push on me what they are or belive. i am very willing to sit and talk with people about almost anything. but i can say if i see someone treating other bad i will speak up and tell them they are acting stuipd and wrong. specaily if its family and friends
@redhotpogo (4401)
• United States
16 Apr 10
Ok I can agree with this. People usually say people's past effects their actions through life, but that is indeed false. People have the ability to choose. Nothing and no one else can decide something for you. But if you say that your experiences effect your outlook on things; how you see people, and things, then yes that is very true.
@busybee10 (3186)
• India
16 Apr 10
There are certain actions which work from the past but not all.Asa daya past by some get either forgotten or still remain as thoughts in the mind. But it is for sure that as days pass by the out look in life changes according the situations a person undergoes.
@roldango (230)
• Philippines
16 Apr 10
yah you are right. But our past should never define our future. We should choose to be better even behind unwanted pasts.